Partnering with Leaders to Define SUCCESS and Achieve It.

Thank you for visiting my profile.  I'm Angela Crawford, a strategist and leadership consultant who empowers people and organizations to grow through authentic connection and a relentless commitment to helping others succeed.

With over 20 years of strategic leadership experience, I provide organizational consulting, along with coaching and leadership development through my customizable Leaders SUCCEED Together© system.

Let's work together to define success for yourself and your organization--and achieve it!

Who I Help:
- C-Suite Executives in privately owned companies
- Senior Leaders tackling new challenges
- HR Professionals seeking leadership development solutions
- Education and Healthcare Administrators

How I Can Help:
- Provide consulting services across organizational development, HR, sales, marketing, and operations.
- Design custom leadership programs to attract and retain top talent
- Serve as your confidential sounding board with fresh perspectives
- Enhance team dynamics and performance with tailored solutions
- Navigate the unique challenges of education and healthcare leadership

Why Choose Crawford Partners?
- Extensive cross-industry experience
- Proven, research-backed Leaders SUCCEED Together© System
- Flexible, client-focused approach
- Deep commitment to your success
- Over 13 years of delivering results

Ready to grow your organization like never before?  Let's connect.

P.S. Even if leadership development isn't your current focus, feel free to pass my information along to someone who might benefit. I'm passionate about helping leaders become the best versions of themselves.

Angela Crawford

➡️ Here's what most leaders miss about organizational culture:

They think culture change happens from the top down through mission statements and company values.

The reality?

73% of culture transformation initiatives fail because leaders diagnose the stated culture instead of the enacted culture.

After studying Cameron & Quinn's Competing Values Framework and Schein's organizational culture theory, I've adapted a 4-phase diagnostic that reveals what's actually happening:

The Framework:

✅ Phase 1: Behavioral Evidence Gathering (Weeks 1-3)
→ Track decision patterns, not policy documents
→ Observe meeting dynamics, not org charts

✅ Phase 2: Informal Culture Assessment (Weeks 4-6)
→ Map promotion patterns vs. stated values
→ Analyze crisis responses vs. company principles

✅ Phase 3: Force Field Analysis (Weeks 7-9)
→ Identify reinforcing vs. disruptive cultural forces
→ Calculate net change pressure

✅ Phase 4: Integration & Action Planning (Weeks 10-12)
→ Plot cultural reality gaps
→ Design evidence-based evolution strategy

The difference? Companies using behavioral diagnostics see 3x higher success rates in culture transformation.

You know you've succeeded when: Your promotion patterns, resource allocation, and crisis responses actually match your stated values.

Which assumption about your company culture needs challenging?

Share your biggest culture gap discovery below. ⬇️

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Angela Crawford, PhD

Business Owner, Consultant & Executive Coach | Guiding Senior Leaders to Overcome Challenges & Drive Growth l Author of Leaders SUCCEED Together©

👉 Strategy without a framework is just a wish.

You can't build a solid house on a shaky foundation. The same goes for your business strategy.

Too many leaders either overcomplicate their planning or "wing it" and hope for the best.

The secret to effective strategy isn't having a 100-page document. It's about having the right tools to think clearly and make decisive moves.

Here's a cheat sheet with 5 battle-tested frameworks that I use with my clients to turn ideas into action:

→ SWOT Analysis: Your 360° View
↳ To honestly assess your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats. Start here for a clear picture of your current reality.

→ TOWS Matrix: Your Action Blueprint
↳ To turn insight into action. This framework helps you match your internal strengths to external opportunities and create a concrete plan.

→ SOAR Framework: Your Vision Igniter
↳ To build a future-focused, positive vision. It rallies your team around Strengths, Opportunities, Aspirations, and measurable Results.

→ PESTEL Analysis: Your Early Warning System
↳ To see the bigger picture. Analyze Political, Economic, Social, and other macro-trends to anticipate shifts before they impact you.

→ VRIO Framework: Your Competitive Edge
↳ To find your "unfair advantage." Identify resources that are Valuable, Rare, and hard to Imitate to build a moat around your business.

Stop guessing and start using a framework.

Which one will you use to plan your next quarter? 👇

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Last week, I facilitated sessions with a cohort of high-potential leaders. It’s always fun and energizing to watch them dive in.

In this particular session, we focused on something many leaders find challenging: giving and receiving feedback through coaching conversations. 

Among the models I share, the GROW Coaching Model (Goal | Reality | Options | Way Forward) consistently resonates most powerfully. It creates space for open dialogue without handing over ready-made answers.

I’ve found that most people don’t respond well to being told exactly what to do. We tend to commit far more deeply to solutions we help discover ourselves. 

GROW supports that beautifully by guiding the coachee to define their own goals, examine their current reality, brainstorm options, and commit to actionable next steps, all while building ownership and momentum.

With performance review season underway for many organizations, revisiting this timeless framework can be especially valuable. It helps leaders foster genuine growth conversations that keep top talent engaged and clear on what success looks like moving forward.

Attached is a helpful visual overview of the model (adapted from John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance).  

If you want more tools for your leadership toolbox, subscribe to my weekly newsletter (link in my bio) and get them right in your inbox every Wednesday at 8 a.m. EST.

Who Do You Really Need? Probably More Support Than You Think. 

Take a look at the graphic in this post: Therapist. Coach. Consultant. Mentor. 

Most professionals think they need to pick one or maybe two people to support their growth.

But in today’s environment, I have found that you may need all four.

And here’s the truth: it’s not indulgent.  It’s strategic. 

The Reality of Today’s Workplace: 

➡️ Leaders are juggling nonstop change and complexity: financial pressures, workforce disruptions, and tech transformation, all at once. 

➡️ Over half of employees today report stress and fatigue. Nearly one in three struggles to balance work and life. We’ve never been asked to navigate more challenges than we are right now. 

Why Multiple Forms of Support Matter 
✅ A therapist helps you process the emotional side. 
✅ A coach accelerates your growth and clarity. 
✅ A consultant brings frameworks and fresh expertise. 
✅ A mentor offers real-world wisdom. 

Alone, each plays a role. 

Together, they help you build resilience, strategy, and confidence. 

That’s why hybrid coach-consultants are on the rise, helping leaders think differently and act decisively. 

Insight + Implementation = Sustainable Change. 

The ROI of Investing in Yourself:  The data speaks for itself: 
💲 Leadership development returns $7 for every $1 invested (Bridge LMS, 2025). 
💲 Coaching boosts financial performance by 14–19% (ICF, 2024). 
💲 94% of employees say they’d stay longer at a company that invests in their growth (LinkedIn Learning, 2025). 

But beyond the numbers, the right support builds confidence, energy, clarity, and capacity, which are the hallmarks of great leadership. 

When you thrive, your organization thrives. 

So here’s the question every leader should ask right now: 
👉 What kind of support are you giving yourself this year? Is it enough for the change and complexity you’re facing? 

Because investing in your own development doesn’t just lift you, it lifts everyone who depends on your leadership. 

Send me a DM if you want to chat about consulting and coaching.  Or, sign up for my weekly newsletter at the link in my bio and get resources in your inbox every Wednesday.

26 Leadership Books to Read in 2026:  What's on your list?

As I looked over my bookshelf and through my Kindle over the holidays, I thought about how many timeless books I read and which new ones have impacted my clients. 

Here are 26 for 2026 that I've curated by analyzing bestsellers from the past year and including favorites from leadership legends. Each book brings something unique to help you grow, inspire others, and create positive change.

As we enter 2026, effective leadership matters more than ever. Whether you're leading a team, developing yourself, or building organizational culture, change is everywhere. These books offer timeless wisdom and cutting-edge insights to elevate your impact.

It was hard to keep the list to only 26. What's on your 2026 reading list? 

👇 Drop your favorite leadership book in the comments. I'd love to hear what's shaping your thinking!

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What's your why?  Simon Sinek is famous for asking leaders to articulate their why. And he’s right—purpose matters. It’s how we stay grounded, fulfilled, and energized in the work we do. 

When I reflect on my why, which is my mission to help people and organizations grow, I don’t think about frameworks or programs first. 
I think about people. 

🌟 People like Courtney Jo, who sent me this video. She is a software engineer who completed my Superpower Pyramid program and is now continuing her leadership journey in one of my client organizations’ leadership programs. 

 ➡️ I think about Bob, a 63-year old maintenance supervisor who attended one of my leadership programs and told me, “This is as much leadership development as I’ve received in my entire career.  I really wish I had learned this sooner.” 
➡️ Or Bill, a CEO who shared something many leaders quietly experience: “The more I have moved up in the organization, the less honest people are with me. I need someone who understands this complexity, both as a consultant and a coach.” 
➡️ I think about Jennifer, a CMO navigating relentless change and an entirely new business reality, needing a trusted partner to help her make sense of what’s next. 
➡️ Susan, an HR leader, was told she must “be more strategic,” and she needs someone who truly understands HR and strategy to help her grow into that role. 
➡️ Cindy, a nonprofit leader balancing a complex web of stakeholders while facing the most challenging season of leadership she’s ever known. 
➡️ And John, a new college graduate, starting his career, unsure which path to take. 

No, these names (except Courtney Jo) are not their real names, but they are real people.   

Yes, I’m growing a business. But for me, this work has always been about impact. Walking alongside people I genuinely care about.  Earning their trust.  Helping them navigate their biggest challenges, hopes, and dreams. 
That is my why. 

And I am deeply grateful for the leaders, Courtney Jo Zuboski, who trust me with it and are willing to share their stories.

What’s your why?  Who do you have in your corner to walk beside you toward the growth you desire?   

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Kicking off 2026 by doing something a little different…I pulled together my top 10 posts from 2025. These are the ones that sparked the most saves, shares, and “this is exactly what I’m dealing with” messages from leaders.  

Inside this curated set, you’ll find short, practical insights on:  
👉 Why a strategy without a framework is just a wish. 
👉 What most leaders miss about organizational culture and why their best talent leaves.
👉 How to give feedback that actually lands, without damaging relationships. 
👉 Why most companies only use half of SWOT and what to do instead 
👉 What 20+ years of senior leadership experience, education, and working with thousands of leaders have taught me about building thriving workplaces. 

If you’re a busy leader who wants straightforward tools to improve strategy, culture, and communication, not theory, you'll want these in your back pocket for the year ahead.  

Want all 10 posts (beautifully packaged) delivered straight to your inbox next week?  
👉 Sign up for my newsletter using the link in my bio, and you’ll get the full Top 10 from 2025 as a downloadable set, right in your inbox

Hard truth that took me too long to learn: no one will ever intentionally invest in your career growth as much as you will. 

You may have leaders, mentors, and colleagues who care deeply about you, but at the end of the day, you are the one responsible for your own career.

After reading the December 2025 Women in the Workplace report from McKinsey & Company and LeanIn, I felt, honestly...sad. 

The data is a sobering reminder that progress is fragile and that waiting for organizations to take care of us is a risky strategy.

Early in my career, I believed my boss owned my aspirations. She was wonderful, supportive, smart, and a mentor. I took the classes, earned degrees, and did all the right things inside the system. Over time, I learned a tougher lesson: organizations change, internal politics are everywhere, and if you are not intentional and strategic about your career, it will not unfold the way you hoped.

The report notes that only about half of companies are still prioritizing the development of women leaders, and for the first time, there is a visible ambition gap: 80 percent of women versus 86 percent of men say they want to be promoted. 

As AI, automation, political polarization, and constant change impact everyone, women are experiencing higher burnout and, in many cases, lower support. Those who wait quietly for their organization to invest will likely be sidelined from the most strategic, future-focused work.

Here is the encouraging part: in my own work, I am starting to see a shift. Senior women, especially in the C-suite and in HR and marketing, are proactively seeking me out as a confidential sounding board to navigate complex organizational dynamics. Not just as a coach, but as a consulting partner to work through high-stakes career and organizational decisions. Some are even paying out of pocket and not telling their organizations, because they worry their desire for growth will not be understood or supported. Their courage humbles me every day.
Together we focus on:
✅ Becoming more strategic by shifting from a trusted operator to an enterprise-level thinker who shapes decisions, not just executes them.
✅ Navigating politics with integrity by mapping power, influence, and risk so you can advocate for yourself and your function without burning out.
✅ Leading AI and change by positioning yourself as a future-ready leader who understands both people and technology, rather than being pigeonholed into softer roles.

If the 2025 numbers tell us anything, it is this: no one is coming to save women’s careers from the outside.

If you are a senior woman, consider this your nudge to take back ownership of your career. Whether you work with someone like me or not is secondary. What matters most is that you find a trusted partner, a confidential and strategic secret weapon, to walk alongside you as you build the career and impact you desire. 

👏 You deserve it!

What's Your Word for the Year?

For 2025, my word was GROWTH, focusing on growing organizations and growing myself in alignment with my values and purpose as a leader. That word shaped my decisions, my calendar, and my commitments. It reminded me that my mission is to help people and organizations grow, not just in results, but in character, clarity, and capability.
 
For 2026, my word is generosity. It comes from this verse:
 “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.”  (Based on 2 Corinthians 9:6)
 
Even if you’re not someone of faith, this principle is powerful. When we are generous with our time, treasure, and talent, we become more valuable to those around us. We don’t just do our jobs—we multiply value. We don’t just hit goals—we elevate people.
 
This year, I want to be known for generously sharing with those around me:
➡️ Generously sharing knowledge
➡️ Generously sharing time and attention
➡️ Generously sharing information, connections, and opportunities

I’ve spent time reflecting on a deeper question: “How do I want to be known when I’m gone?”
 
Being remembered as someone generous—with wisdom, encouragement, and practical support—is deeply important to me. Generosity is how I want to live, and how I hope to be remembered.
 
If you’re considering choosing a word for 2026, here are a few reflection questions to get you started:
❔ What are your values?
❔ What do you want to see more of in the world?
❔ How would you like to be remembered?
❔ Where do you believe you need to grow this year?
❔ When you look back at the end of 2026, who do you want to have become?
 
🌟 Then ask yourself: “What single word, if I truly lived it, would change the way I show up this year?”
 
Drop your word for 2026 in the comments. You never know who might need the word you choose.
 
Want a more detailed copy of our Word of the Year Guide? My newsletter subscribers already received it last week. DM me for a copy and sign up for my newsletter (link in my bio) to get actionable tips and guides in your inbox every Wednesday at 8 am EST.

Recently, a colleague asked, "Why don't more organizations have leaders ready to take on larger roles?" 

We both started our careers and quickly advanced because we experienced what many leaders today haven't: foundational leadership development within our organizations. 

So I looked into it. What I discovered reveals a troubling trend: for some organizations, we may have a lost generation of leaders.

➡️ Early 2000s: Organizations invested in leadership training: workshops, mentoring, programs, assessments. Imperfect, but present.
➡️ 2007-2010: The Great Recession devastated L&D budgets. Organizations cut leadership development by over 50%. 
➡️ March 2020: COVID-19 canceled leadership workshops overnight. The real-time mentorship and informal learning pathways that develop leaders simply vanished.
➡️ 2020s: Many organizations shifted to self-paced online modules. While inexpensive and flexible, research shows these lack the collaboration, real-time feedback, and interpersonal connection that actually develop leaders.

Although many organizations have returned to investing in leader development, others have not, and here's what we lost: 

Collaborative learning that creates shared language, common vocabulary, and frameworks that strengthen culture and accelerate decision-making. 

The bottom line? A generation of talented leaders was promoted because they deserved it, but many never received the foundational development they needed.

This isn't their failure.

We cut budgets when we should have invested. We moved to isolated online learning when they needed collaborative experiences. We canceled programs when uncertainty demanded we double down.

Now, during unprecedented change, I have to ask:  How are you developing your leaders?

Are you creating collaborative learning experiences that build shared language and strengthen culture? Or are you asking them to figure it out on their own?

If we want future leaders, we need to be the ones willing to develop them.

We are sending all ten of these detailed guides to our newsletter subscribers on this Wednesday. Sign up in my bio if you want to receive them.

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You know the feeling:
😳 Your brain lights up with “What if they think I’m pushy?” the second you open a DM.
😬 You’d rather post and pray the right people find you than risk being ghosted.
😅 You tell yourself that if you were really good, clients would just show up.

You don’t want to fake connection just to pitch.
You want sales that feels human. Real conversations, not pressure tactics.

You’re not bad at sales.
Your brain is just protecting you.

The amygdala flags rejection as danger.
Your prefrontal cortex freezes.
And boom hesitation, overthinking, silence.

That’s where my work comes in.
I teach the Neuroscience of No-Pressure Sales so you can sell with calm confidence instead of fear.

No scripts. No manipulation.
Just science, psychology, and simple tools to retrain your nervous system so selling feels natural again.

When your brain is relaxed, your authenticity returns.
You stop pitching and start connecting.
Outreach stops feeling like an intrusion and starts feeling like service.

This is sales made easy for coaches who hate selling.

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🧠 Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S. 🚀

Stop chasing success alone.

Every innovator who built something great had 1 thing in common

Connection
It’s not that creativity happens alone…
It’s that the brain creates better in connection.

The brain evolved to think with other brains.
When connection is present, threat detection quiets.

The amygdala relaxes.
The prefrontal cortex stays online.
That’s where creativity lives.

Connection increases neural synchrony.
Brains begin to align.
Ideas move faster.
Patterns emerge you can’t see solo.

Isolation does the opposite.
Thinking loops.
Risk tolerance drops.
Novelty dries up.

Creativity isn’t just about safety.
It’s about belonging.
Here’s how :

1️⃣ Think out loud with others
 Speaking activates more neural networks than silent thought.
 Shared dialogue creates neural synchrony,
 helping the brain integrate patterns it can’t access alone.
 Half-formed ideas are fuel, not flaws.

2️⃣ Build before you judge
 Evaluation triggers the amygdala.
 Threat shuts down the prefrontal cortex.
 Sequence matters: expand first, critique later.
 Flow requires a brain that isn’t defending itself.

3️⃣ Create spaces to explore, not perform
 Performance activates social threat circuitry.
 Play lowers cortisol and increases cognitive flexibility.
 A relaxed nervous system makes wider, more novel connections.

Innovation doesn’t come from brilliance.
It comes from brains that feel safe thinking together.

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This feels illegal.

I built a mobile app while sailing.

Out there, things get quiet.
No notifications fighting for attention.
No noise telling you who to be.

Just wind, water, and time to notice what’s inside.

That’s where the idea came from.

Not everyone can disappear onto a boat.
But everyone needs a way to reconnect with themselves
In a loud world that never shuts up.

So I opened Replit
and described an app idea I’d already been researching. 

How to connect with yourself in a tech heavy world using…
Guess what…yes, neuroscience. 
You guessed it. 

Replit turned that idea into a real mobile app.

A live phone preview appeared.
I played with it and iterated between tacks. 
A few messages later, the app matched the intention.

Calm.
Minimal.
Human.

No mobile frameworks.
No complicated setup.
No build headaches.

Replit handled the mobile stack…
the preview
and the path to publishing.

I focused on the part that mattered:
creating space for real connection.

That’s the point.

You don’t need to escape your life to feel grounded.
You can build tools that bring you back to yourself.
Right where you are.
Even in a noisy world.

If you’ve ever wanted to create an app without needing a team
(or a computer) 
NOW you can. 

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P.S. If I vanish for a few hours I’m probably publishing a new app between tacks. 

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It's not that you aren't creative...

It's that your brain doesn't get enough breathing room

When outcomes matter too much,
the nervous system shifts into protection.

Certainty over curiosity.
Efficiency over exploration.

The amygdala scans for mistakes.
The prefrontal cortex goes quiet.
Thinking narrows to what’s already proven.

That feels like a creativity problem.
It’s actually a safety problem.

Innovation doesn’t come from pushing harder.
It comes from widening the mental field.

Creative insight requires a brain
that isn’t bracing for consequences.

One that feels free to test, miss, and iterate
without immediate judgment.

That’s why pressure-heavy environments
produce more output…
and fewer breakthroughs.

Creativity is a state, not a talent.
Change the state and ideas follow.

Here’s how to heighten creativity on demand:

1/ Slow the body before you think
Creativity follows regulation.
Lengthen your exhale for 60 seconds before ideating.
A calmer nervous system reopens cognitive range.

2/ Create “low-stakes” thinking space
Tell your brain nothing here has to be right.
Set a 10-minute window for bad ideas only.
Permission removes the fear that blocks novelty.

3/ Shift environments, not effort
New inputs disrupt rigid patterns.
Walk. Change rooms. Look farther into the distance.
Movement and visual expansion spark new connections.

When the brain feels safe enough to explore,
it starts to play.
And play is where innovation lives.

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Your best ideas don’t show up when you’re busy

They show up when your nervous system settles.

Most people chase creativity by adding pressure.
More urgency.
More stakes.
More noise.

The brain responds by tightening.
Sympathetic activation rises.
Attention narrows.
Thinking becomes reactive.

It’s biology doing its job.
Insight comes from a different state.
When the parasympathetic nervous system activates,
💖The body slows.
💖Breath deepens.
💖Perception widens.

In that state, the prefrontal cortex regains flexibility.
The default mode network comes online.
Problems stop looking fixed and start looking solvable.

This is why breakthroughs arrive in the shower.
On walks.
After you stop trying.

Psychological safety is what allows this shift to happen.
When the brain doesn’t feel rushed or judged,
 
💡It explores.
💡It reframes.
💡It sees options that pressure hides.

No safety, no space.
No space, no insight.

Here’s how to design for it:
1️⃣ Slow the body before thinking
 Regulation opens cognitive range.
 Insight follows physiological calm.

2️⃣ Reduce perceived consequences
 Lower stakes keep the prefrontal cortex online.
 Safety precedes creativity.

3️⃣ Create margin in your schedule
 White space invites recombination.
 Ideas need room to collide.

Innovation doesn’t come from force.
It comes from a nervous system that’s allowed
to settle and see differently.

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Clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder

It comes from feeling safer.

When the brain senses pressure, it prepares to defend.
 
Attention narrows.
Options collapse.
The mind looks for certainty.

That state is efficient.
It’s not creative.

Innovation requires uncertainty tolerance.
That tolerance lives in the nervous system,
not the intellect.

When the parasympathetic nervous system activates,

✅ The body slows.
✅ The threat response stands down.
✅ The brain regains flexibility.

This is when perception widens.
Old assumptions loosen.

Problems reorganize themselves.
New pathways become visible.
Psychological safety is what allows this shift.

It tells the brain nothing bad will happen
if you explore a different angle.

Without safety, the brain repeats.
With safety, the brain imagines.

No regulation, no reframing.
No reframing, no innovation.

Here’s how to design for it:
1️⃣ Regulate before you reason
 Slowing the breath reduces neural noise.
 Clear thinking follows bodily calm.

2️⃣ Delay decisions during ideation
 Premature judgment triggers threat circuits.
 Time preserves creative flexibility.

3️⃣ Create private space to think freely
 Privacy lowers social evaluation.
 Safety expands possibility.

Breakthroughs come from a nervous system 
that feels safe enough
to see the problem differently.

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You’re not broken.

You're just not connected...

...in a way no one taught you to recognize.

We have more connection technology than ever.
Group chats. Slack threads. Social feeds.
Standing meetings. Faces everywhere.

You can be busy, productive, and surrounded by people
And still feel unseen, unfelt, and unsupported.

Modern life keeps the nervous system overstimulated.
Your brain is flooded with input, decisions,
and performance cues.

When that happens, the social brain goes offline.
You don’t lose the desire for connection.
You lose access to it.

So you adapt.

You stay functional instead of present.
You keep conversations light instead of real.
You handle things alone because it feels safer.
You tell yourself you’re “fine”
while feeling disconnected from yourself.

Over time, that state becomes your baseline.
And the most painful part?

You start to believe this is just how life is.
It’s not.

Disconnection isn’t a personality trait.
It’s a nervous system state.
And nervous system states can change.

Here’s what neuroscience shows actually helps.

1/ regulation comes before connection.
 When your system is overloaded,
 bonding chemistry can’t do its job.
 You don’t need better words.
 You need your body to feel safe enough
 to be real.

2/ small moments matter more
 than deep conversations.
 Eye contact that lasts a beat longer.
 A pause instead of rushing away.
 Naming what you notice
 instead of what sounds impressive.

3/ connection accelerates in the right environment.
Trying to heal disconnection alone
 keeps the brain in protection mode.
 Being around others doing hard inner work
 creates co-regulation.

Your nervous system learns:
“I don’t have to carry this by myself.”
That’s why community matters.

Not noisy.
Not performative.
Not networking.

But a grounded space of people 
reconnecting with themselves
and with others.

This is what I’m building.
A community for capable, thoughtful people
doing hard things
who don’t want to do them alone.

A place to regulate, reflect, and be real
without fixing yourself
or pretending you’re fine.

If you’ve felt alone in a world full of people,
it’s not because something is wrong with you.
It’s because your nervous system
hasn’t had the right conditions yet.

And you don’t have to create those alone.
If this resonated, the community is open
for people ready to reconnect with themselves and with others.

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It’s not that your team doesn't have new ideas…

It’s that they don’t feel safe enough to share them with you.

When people sense evaluation,
their nervous systems switch to self-protection.

😶‍🌫️ They edit.
😶‍🌫️ They hedge.
😶‍🌫️ They stick to what’s already approved.

That looks like alignment.
It’s actually inhibition.

Innovation requires exposure.
New ideas are, by definition, unproven.
And the brain treats being wrong like a social threat.

So the amygdala gets loud.
Risk tolerance drops.
Thinking narrows to what won’t get you in trouble.

That’s why teams with “high standards”
but low psychological safety
produce execution…
not breakthroughs.

Psychological safety isn’t about being nice.
It’s about creating conditions
where the prefrontal cortex stays online.

When people believe they won’t be punished
for experimenting,
their brains stay open.

They challenge assumptions.
They connect unlikely dots.
They surface problems early.

No safety, no innovation.
No innovation, no future edge.

If you want better ideas, don’t ask for more creativity.
Design environments where
people don’t have to protect themselves first.

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Your CRM shows ACTIVITY.

It doesn't show REALITY.

Most managers think they understand their pipeline.
But they’re only seeing the version their reps feel comfortable sharing.

The CRM shows progress.
The reps show confidence.
The pipeline shows movement.

But underneath all of that
there’s hesitation, uncertainty, and doubt
that never makes it into the forecast.

And that’s the part that costs you.

Reps aren’t trying to mislead you.
They’re trying to look competent.
So they hold back the early warning signs.
They soften how shaky a deal feels.
They overstate buyer momentum.

They wait until a problem becomes undeniable
and by then
your quarter is already in danger.

That’s why so many leaders get blindsided.
Not because the deals are bad
but because the real signals were never visible.

A CRM tracks activity.
It doesn’t track conviction.
It doesn’t track buyer emotions.
It doesn’t track rep confidence.
It doesn’t track the energy of the deal
which is the part that collapses first.

SalesSage exposes that hidden layer.
It reveals where reps feel unsure.
It highlights deals that look fine on paper
but feel unstable underneath.
It identifies slipping belief before it becomes slipping revenue.
It gives you truth early
so you can fix the problem while there’s still time.

Leaders don’t need more data.
They need the truth behind the data.
That’s the gap SalesSage closes.

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You can’t fix a quarter your team’s afraid to talk about.

Your biggest revenue leak isn’t pipeline. It’s silence.

The worst part of running a sales team
is thinking you’re safe right before the quarter blows up.

Your CRM says you’re good.
Your reps say deals are “strong”.
Forecast looks clean.
You breathe for two seconds.

Then the quarter flips
and you’re standing there like
what the hell just happened?

Here’s the truth nobody wants to say:
Reps aren’t lying.
Their brains are.

People say things are fine when they’re overwhelmed.
They overestimate deals when they’re stressed.
They downplay risk when they don’t want to look behind.

So you get the truth only after it hits your number.
Sales Sage catches it earlier.

It spots confidence dips.
Avoidance patterns.
Dead deals dressed up as healthy ones.
Execution cracks that never show in a CRM.

Stuff reps don’t say out loud but absolutely tank a quarter.
If you’re tired of getting blindsided
by “everything looks good” data

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Stop telling yourself that you're too busy to DM.

Stop telling yourself DMs are too pushy. 

DMs close sales. Period. 

Most people think outreach stalls
because they don’t know what to say.
That’s rarely true.

What’s actually happening is identity protection.
Your brain isn’t avoiding DMs to save time.
It’s protecting how you see yourself.

So you stay visible.
You post.
You wait.

And the conversations that move revenue never start.

When the nervous system flags selling as risk,
avoidance looks like strategy.

Weeks pass.
Opportunities decay.
Revenue becomes unpredictable.
That delay has a real cost.

Avoiding just 3–5 high-value messages a week
can quietly leave $15K–$100K per quarter on the table.

Not because you lack ability.
Because “selling” feels unsafe.

This is why scripts don’t stick.
Knowledge ≠ movement.

Insight shows up first.
Behavior only follows when the underlying pattern shifts.

That’s what Butterhood is for.
Not more information.
Not performance.
Not pressure.

It’s a place to notice friction in real time
and make small, deliberate moves
that change momentum.

Inside, we work on:
Why certain conversations stall even when you say the right thing
What makes outreach feel heavy and how to remove that friction
How to move conversations forward without forcing or performing
Installing a sales rhythm that feels stable instead of stressful

They’re ordered intentionally.
Each layer stabilizes the nervous system for the next.

If you’ve ever thought, “This makes sense…
so why am I not doing it yet?”

That’s the signal.
GET IN THE DMS.
Still resisting?
GET INTO THE BUTTERHOOD.

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Why do you have that stupid look on your face?

A C-level executive asked me on my first day

I was sitting across his desk of my first big girl job
(Talk about an executive onboarding)
I was just 20 years old.

I remember freezing.
Not answering.
Just blinking.

I laughed it off and swallowed my pride. 

Meeting over.
But my body stayed locked.

Jaw tight.
Chest and body buzzing.
Mind replaying every word.

Later that day a coworker asked if I was okay.

I said yes.
I wasn’t lying on purpose.
I just didn’t know what “okay” even meant anymore.

That’s the problem with stress.
It normalizes.
Your nervous system adapts.
Your baseline quietly shifts.

You think its no big deal. 
I’m fine. 

Your body knows that you’re not.
For years, I relied on vibes.
Am I handling it or barely holding it together?

No data.
No baseline.
Just guessing.

That’s why I built a these resources
✅ An entire toxic boss armor system
✅ 25-question nervous system audit
✅ An app that helps you each step of the way

Not a personality quiz.
Not mindset fluff.

Actual signals of load, recovery,
and how close you are to the edge.

The site and app give you a real baseline.
Clear data.
Practical next steps.

You don’t need thicker skin.
You need awareness and a hand up. 

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Why do you have that stupid look on your face

Everyone wants AI magic.

Few want to invest in the foundation.

People light up when they talk about AI lead gen.

AI outreach.
AI follow up.
AI prospecting.
The promise of more output with less effort...
It's intoxicating.

But effectiveness still comes from the human brain.
The seller’s state.
The buyer’s state.
The interaction between the two.

If your nervous system is overloaded, 
your messages won’t land.

If your prospect’s nervous system is tense,
your tools won’t move them.

If your clarity wobbles,
your AI will wobble with it.

Tools can accelerate your behavior.
They can’t upgrade your regulation.
They can’t deepen your presence.
They can’t create safety for a buyer who isn’t sure yet.

So you can very quickly send a bad message to 
a lot of people (and I see this a lot).
Super efficient. 
Effective?
Not so much. 

You would have been better off 
not to send anything at all. 

You create
👀 noise.
👀 hesitation.
👀 stall points.

Before you automate anything,
your nervous system has to support the interaction.
Your messaging has to speak to the real pressure points.
Your awareness has to read what the buyer is actually signaling.

Here are the pieces that shift everything:
1️⃣ A regulated internal state
A steady system writes messages people lean into.

2️⃣ Understanding buyer pressure
Not their demographics.
Their actual cognitive load.

3️⃣ Signal-based communication
Warmth, recency, micro-openings, lowered stakes.

Without this foundation in place, AI becomes clutter.
😶‍🌫️ Damages your brand.
😶‍🌫️ Irritates your people. 
😶‍🌫️ Loses your clients.

Inside Butterhood, this is the core work.
The human layer that makes every tool
more powerful, more accurate, and more profitable.
EFFECTIVE.

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7 signs you're tough enough for your toxic boss...

without quitting your job.

Your nervous system has a baseline.
That baseline shapes how pressure lands.

Here are 7 signs you're tough enough:

1/ Your baseline state
 A system that rarely rests stays closer to threat.
 From that state, stress hits faster and harder.
 Do this: notice how you feel when you first wake up.
 Do this: schedule one daily pause with no objective.

2/ Continuous motion
 Moving task to task keeps activation high.
 The body never completes a stress cycle.
 Do this: insert a 2-minute pause between blocks.
 Do this: stand still and breathe before switching tasks.

3/ Mental load during “rest”
 A busy mind keeps the system activated.
 Physical stillness alone doesn’t equal recovery.
 Do this: notice if your mind stays busy at rest.
 Do this: gently bring attention to body sensations.

4/ Guilt around slowing down
 Guilt keeps the nervous system alert.
 Safety requires permission to stop.
 Do this: notice the urge to justify rest.
 Do this: remind yourself recovery supports performance.

5/ Morning and evening carryover
 Tension on waking signals unresolved load.
 Evening stress blocks downshifting.
 Do this: check your body before checking your phone.
 Do this: create a short shutdown ritual at night.

6/ Recovery timing
 Waiting for exhaustion delays regulation.
 Late recovery takes longer to work.
 Do this: rest before you feel depleted.
 Do this: add small resets throughout the day.

7/ Social threat sensitivity
 Overloaded systems struggle with power dynamics.
 Emotional range narrows under pressure.
 Do this: regulate before interactions, not after.
 Do this: widen awareness when tension rises.

This comes before any boss strategy.
Awareness of starting state is the first layer of immunity.

PS Which point showed you something you hadn’t noticed before?

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 7 signs you're tough enough for a toxic boss

Don't just pray for a job.

Pray for a leader, not a toxic boss. 

They say you leave your manager, not your job.
So. True. 

Culture lives in nervous systems.
Leaders set the baseline every day.
Teams regulate around that signal automatically.

Here are 5 signs of a great leader:

1/ Self-regulation
 A great leader notices their own stress.
 They slow down before they speak.
 The room settles when they enter.

A toxic leader brings unprocessed stress.
The room tightens immediately.

2/ Clarity under pressure
 A great leader keeps priorities stable.
 Expectations stay clear during chaos.
 Brains relax when rules do not shift.

A toxic leader changes direction emotionally.
The team scans moods instead of work.

3/ Pressure flows upward
 A great leader absorbs pressure from above.
 They filter noise before it hits the team.
 Focus stays intact.

A toxic leader pushes pressure downward.
Urgency spreads through the group.

4/ Recovery is allowed
 A great leader respects human limits.
 Pauses are normal and safe.
 Energy and thinking stay strong.

A toxic leader rewards constant output.
Rest feels risky or earned.

5/ Response over reaction
 A great leader pauses in conflict.
 Their nervous system stays online.
 Hard talks feel contained.

A toxic leader reacts emotionally.
Others mirror the instability.
Trust erodes quietly.

Leadership is not control.
It is regulation.

PS Which one of these have you felt?

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Behind every “I’m not qualified”

Is a future you haven’t met yet. 

I’m not technical.
I’ve never wanted to be “the code person.”
And honestly, that used to stop me.

Because most AI coding hype assumes
you already know what you’re doing.
Repos.
Installs.
Setup before you even start.

That’s where Replit felt different.
I stayed in the browser.
I described what I wanted in plain words.
And I watched a real app come to life.
Live.

I wasn’t struggling to learn syntax.
I was refining an idea using my own language. 

You grow by doing things you aren’t qualified to do yet.
Most people don’t fail because they can’t.

They stop because they tell themselves
“I’m not technical enough.”

I didn’t suddenly become technical.
The barrier just disappeared.

Replit handled the setup, hosting, and deployment.
I focused on what the app should feel like.
That’s the unlock.

If you already code,
pairing Replit with Claude Code accelerates shipping.
If you don’t,
Replit still lets you build something real.

No identity change required.

You don’t need permission.
You don’t need a team.
You don’t need to be “qualified” yet.
You just need to start.

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The way to get clients on Linkedin is this...

Understand the inner thoughts of your ICP

Most people study their ICP on the surface.
Top sellers study how their ICP thinks.

If you want to sell on LinkedIn,
you have to know what your ICP is actually worried about,
not what they pretend to care about.

Here are 8 steps to uncover the real subtext 
of your ICP on LinkedIn:

1. Audit Their LinkedIn Profiles
Look at what they emphasize.
Tension shows up in their headcount, KPIs, and team priorities.
Their top headaches are usually hiding in plain sight.

2. Study Their Event Activity
Search for events they attend.
Then check the attendee list.
The themes they show up for
tell you what’s keeping them up at night.

3. Watch Them in Comment Sections
Look at your ICP commenting on competitors’ posts.
Their questions reveal fears.
Their reactions reveal pressure points.

4. Analyze Comments Under Hand-Raising Posts
Creators often say “comment for more info.”
Those comments are gold.
They show exactly what your ICP thinks they need
and what they wish someone would help them solve.

5. Read Your Own Comments Differently
Your commenters are micro-versions of your ICP.
Study their language, frustrations, and patterns.
Your future offer refinement is already hiding there.

6. Track What They Subscribe To
Newsletters, creators, and series they follow
tell you what they’re actively trying to improve.
Subscription signals = priority signals.

7. Act Like Your ICP For a Day
Ask yourself:
If I were them, what problems would I think about at 10 a.m.?
Budget. Productivity. Risk. Politics. Efficiency.
Not “culture” or “soft skills.”
Speak to the internal pressure they feel,
not the topic you want to teach.

8. Go One Layer Deeper Than Logic
Once you find the logical problem,
double punch it.
What’s the emotional layer?
Fear of missing targets?
Fear of looking incompetent?
Fear of wasting budget?
Fear of taking a risk and being wrong?
This is the real subtext.

If you understand your ICP’s subtext,
you won’t sound like their 10th vendor.
You’ll sound like the only person
who actually gets how they think.

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If you can’t regulate...

You can’t close.

Sales exposes you.
You meet yourself in every conversation.

Your patterns.
Your pressure points.
Your nervous system.
And there are truths you can’t bypass.

You can only face them and train your brain to handle them.
Here are the fifteen brutal truths that shape every 
👀 coach
👀 solopreneur
👀 salesperson

Skinny to long.
Short to heavy.

Exactly how they hit in real life.

1. Pain shows.
2. Hope lies.
3. Buyers drift.
4. Silence grows teeth.
5. Confidence is unstable.
6. Urgency fades overnight.
7. Your tone leaks your pressure.
8. Your pipeline mirrors your mind.
9. Hard calls get pushed tomorrow.
10. Deals die from emotional overload.
11. You cling to maybes to avoid rejection.
12. You chase when your nervous system spikes.
13. You fill your calendar instead of your forecast.
14. You talk more when your brain feels threatened.
15. You lose more deals from dysregulation than bad skills.

The people who win aren’t the hardest closers.
They’re the ones who can think when the noise hits.

They regulate faster.
They recover quicker.
They protect their cognitive bandwidth.

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Don’t be afraid to start all over again.

You might like your new story better.

Most people don’t stay with toxic bosses
because they love the job.

They stay because starting over feels risky.

You already invested time.
You already proved yourself.
You already survived this much.

So you tell yourself to push through.
But toxic environments don’t just drain energy.
They slowly rewrite who you think you are.

Confidence narrows.
Vision shrinks.
Your nervous system learns to expect threat.

Starting over isn’t failure.
It’s interruption.
And sometimes, leaving isn’t possible yet.
That’s where people get stuck.

Here’s how to regain agency
even if you can’t leave right now.

Three pillars.
Practical. Grounded. Usable.

1/ Establish your baseline
You need to know your starting state.
Stress feels normal when it’s chronic.
Without data, you guess how you’re doing.
Do this: assess how activated you feel most days.
Do this: track sleep, tension, and recovery honestly.
Baseline awareness tells you whether you’re already 
overloaded before the boss even enters the picture.

2/ Predict instead of brace
Toxic bosses are patterned.
The same situations trigger the same behavior.
Surprise is what spikes threat.
Do this: list the moments they escalate.
Do this: plan your response before it happens.
Prediction gives your nervous system what it desperately wants.
Certainty.

3/Plan recovery like it’s required
Stress doesn’t end when the meeting ends.
Unreleased activation carries forward.
That’s how burnout accumulates.
Do this: schedule recovery after interactions.
Do this: close the stress cycle deliberately.
Recovery restores clarity, confidence, and choice.

This is how you protect yourself
while you decide what comes next.

And if there truly is no exit right now,
you still don’t have to white-knuckle it.

That’s why I built
Toxic Boss Armor.

It gives you a baseline.
Helps you predict patterns.
Builds plans that keep your nervous system intact.

Starting over doesn’t always mean leaving tomorrow.
Sometimes it means reclaiming yourself first.

PS If you could rewrite your work story, 
what would you want to feel differently?

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Micromanagement breeds compliance.

Not commitment.

When every move is monitored,
every decision is corrected,
and every mistake is highlighted,
the brain stops optimizing for growth.

It starts optimizing for safety.
Micromanagement increases uncertainty.
Uncertainty activates the amygdala.
Threat signaling rises.
The prefrontal cortex goes partially offline.

That’s the biology of it.
The prefrontal cortex is where initiative lives,
creativity lives, and ownership lives.

When threat is present, those functions are deprioritized.
So the nervous system adapts.
People do what’s asked.

They stop offering ideas.
They wait for instructions.
They avoid visibility.

From the outside, it looks like control is working.
From the inside, commitment is already gone.

Chronic micromanagement also keeps the stress axis activated.
Cortisol stays elevated.
Recovery shortens.
Motivation drops.
Burnout becomes inevitable.

This is nervous system load.
Leaders often assume disengagement = people don’t care.

More often, it means their nervous system 
doesn’t feel safe enough to invest.

And if you’re on the receiving end of this,
you don’t need thicker skin.

You need regulation, data, and strategy.

That’s why I built
Toxic Boss Armor.

It helps you understand your nervous system baseline,
predict toxic patterns,
and protect your clarity and confidence
even when leadership doesn’t change.

Compliance is a warning sign.
Commitment only emerges when the brain feels safe.

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The answer doesn’t show up when you chase it

It shows up when you stop gripping.

Most people try to solve problems by applying more force.

❌ More analysis.
❌ More urgency.
❌ More mental effort.

The brain hears that as threat.
So it tightens.

When pressure rises,
the nervous system shifts into control mode.

Attention narrows.
Thinking becomes repetitive.

The brain looks for the least risky answer,
not the most interesting one.

That’s why clarity feels elusive when you need it most.
Insight lives in a quieter state.

When the parasympathetic nervous system activates,
the body settles.

Heart rate slows.
Breath deepens.
Internal noise drops.

In that state, the brain starts integrating 
instead of defending.

Patterns rearrange.
Meaning surfaces.
You don’t force the answer.
You notice it.

Psychological safety is what gives the nervous system
permission to loosen its grip.

It tells the brain:
🧠 You’re allowed to pause.
🧠 You’re allowed to wonder.
🧠 You’re allowed to see this differently.

Without safety, the brain loops.
With safety, the brain listens.

No calm, no coherence.
No coherence, no insight.

Here’s how to invite clarity back in:
1️⃣ Soften the body first
Longer exhales reduce neural noise.
The mind follows the body into calm.

2️⃣ Remove time pressure from thinking
Urgency activates threat circuits.
Space restores perspective.

3️⃣ Be alone long enough to hear yourself
Solitude lowers social evaluation.
The quiet reveals what you already know.

The answer isn’t missing.
It’s waiting for peace to rise high enough
for you to hear it.

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