𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗰𝗵𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗻𝘁, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵.

If that hit home, you’re not alone.

I work with high-performing professionals—especially those in tech and engineering—who feel stuck.

They’re great at solving problems, leading projects, and delivering results.
But despite their talent, their career growth doesn’t match their capability.

They often struggle with 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆.

Some of my clients say things like:
• “I know I’m good… but I don’t know how to make others see it.”
• “I freeze in leadership conversations.”
• “I hesitate to ask for what I deserve.”

And that’s where I come in.

𝗜’𝗺 𝗕𝗶𝗷𝗮𝘆 𝗞𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗿 𝗞𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗹 — the only Master Certified Coach by Tony Robbins in Asia, an Executive Coach with the John Maxwell Leadership Team, a BCC-certified Executive Coach, and an IIT alumnus with 17+ years of experience helping professionals grow.

𝗜 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘁𝗲𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵—𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀, 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝘀—𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲.

💡 𝗠𝘆 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵: 𝗗.𝗡.𝗔. 𝗼𝗳 𝗜𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲™

My clients don’t just communicate better—they get promoted faster because their value becomes visible.

My D.N.A. of Influence™ framework goes deeper. It combines:

• 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀 (13 unique personalities)
• 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀-𝗯𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 (Six Human Needs Psychology)
• 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗲𝘀


🗣️ 𝗖𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:
“After 90 days, I had more appreciation than in the last 3 years.”
“My visibility increased so much, I was considered for a role I never even applied for.”
“Bijay helped me ask for what I deserve—and I got a 50% raise.”

🚀 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗹 𝘂𝗽?

If you’re technically strong but feel like you’re being overlooked for promotions, recognition, or leadership roles, let’s talk.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗱𝗲𝗿. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗽𝗲𝗿, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗰.

Let’s make your work visible—and your value impossible to ignore.

🔗 Send me a message or book a meeting:
https://peakimpact.pim.org.in/work-with-bijay

Bijay Khandal

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀
without challenging their authority.
Here’s how to do it.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘂𝘀𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗴𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴.

  • You’re in a meeting.
  • Your boss is laying out a plan.
  • And halfway through, you feel it.

𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴’𝘀 𝗼𝗳𝗳.

Maybe the timeline is tight.
Maybe a dependency is missing.
Maybe you’ve seen this exact move backfire before.

You’re not emotional.
You’re not trying to prove a point.
You just… see it.

𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗸𝗶𝗰𝗸𝘀 𝗶𝗻.

“If I say this directly, 
it might sound like I’m pushing back.”

“If I phrase it wrong, 
this could turn awkward.”

𝗦𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗶𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲.

You add background.
You explain your intent.

You soften the sentence so much 
that the point almost disappears.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸, 𝗶𝘁 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗳𝗹𝗮𝘁.

Here’s the part most people miss.

It’s not what you’re saying 
that creates tension.

It’s the signal your words send 
in the first five seconds.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻,
authority feels challenged.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁,
authority stays intact.

𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲.

Instead of jumping straight into the issue, you say:

“I’m aligned on the outcome. 
I’m less sure about the path.”

That one line does a lot of work quietly.

𝗜𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀, 
“I’m not fighting you. I’m thinking with you.”

𝗢𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝘁’𝘀 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗮 𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗸 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆.

Most people say it like a warning.
Which immediately raises defenses.

𝗔 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗶𝘀:

“I might be missing something, 
but can I flag a risk I’m seeing?”

Same concern.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆.

And when decisions are moving fast 
and you need to slow things down,

𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. 
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.

“Before we lock this in, 
can I share one concern?”

You’re not stopping the train.
You’re just asking everyone to look down the track.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻 
behind all the scripts in the visual above.

  • You protect the relationship first.
  • Then you protect the work.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 
stays professional instead of personal.

This is exactly the kind of work 
I do in coaching.

Not teaching people what to say.

But helping them choose language 
that protects the relationship 
and the work when 
the stakes are real.

𝗜 𝗻𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗴𝗲 $𝟳𝟬𝟬 
for a private coaching call.

But Each month, 
I open 5 free calls.

The booking link is in the comments.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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Bijay Kumar Khandal

Executive Coach for Tech Leaders | Specializing in Leadership, Communication & Sales Enablement | Helping You Turn Expertise into Influence & Promotions | IIT-Madras | DISC & Tony Robbins certified Master coach

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗱,
here’s how to spot it
and 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻.

Here’s something most people miss.
Fake listening doesn’t sound rude.
It sounds cooperative.

𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:
“Yeah, but…”
“I get it.”
“That’s normal.”

𝗢𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗲.
In reality, they often mean the person 
has already moved on in their head.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲.

When someone says,

“Yeah, but…”
they’re not responding to what you said.
They’re responding to what they wanted to say all along.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁,
the conversation usually escalates.
𝗘𝗴𝗼𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻.
Listening goes out.

𝗦𝗼, 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗲 𝗼𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁.

Instead, say something like:
“I see you have something to add—please share.”

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁.
It lets them empty their thought first.
Once that happens, 
their mind is finally free to listen.

𝗔𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀:
“I get it.”

Most people hear that and feel relieved.

But often, 
it’s said before understanding is complete.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝗮 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:

“Awesome. Let’s recap before we move on.”
works so well.

It doesn’t accuse.
It doesn’t slow things down awkwardly.

It simply brings the conversation 
back to shared understanding.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀.
They’re socially intelligent pauses.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲
without calling anyone out
or making things uncomfortable.

If you’ve ever felt unheard in meetings,
or noticed discussions jumping to solutions too fast,
𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘁.


This kind of conversation work 
comes up a lot in my one-on-one coaching 
with senior professionals.

𝗠𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.

Every month, I also open up 5 free calls 
for people who want to work 
specifically on communication, 
influence, and leadership presence.

Selection is based on responses, 
not first-come.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿
𝗗𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝟯 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿
 
Most professionals speak too much.
Leaders remove unnecessary language.
 
𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲.
 
𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁: 𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀.
 
“I didn’t mean it that way.”
“You misunderstood me.”
 
  • Seen during performance reviews.
  • Manager questions an outcome.
  • Employee explains intentions.
  • Manager hears uncertainty.
  • Trust quietly drops.
 
Leaders don’t defend intent.
They clarify outcomes.
 
𝗦𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱: 𝗕𝗹𝗮𝗺𝗲.
“They didn’t deliver.”
“No one informed me.”
 
  • Seen in cross-team meetings.
  • Deadlines slip unexpectedly.
  • Manager wants ownership.
  • Blame shifts sideways.
  • Credibility takes a hit.
 
Leaders own the result.
Even without control.
 
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗿𝗱: 𝗡𝗼𝗶𝘀𝗲.
Over-explaining details.
Justifying effort endlessly.
 
  • Seen in senior forums.
  • Time is limited.
  • Attention is scarce.
  • Judgment matters most.
 
𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗲𝗹𝘆.
They reduce risk.
 
That’s the real difference.
 
  • Clarity is respected.
  • Explanation is tolerated.
 
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗼𝗿𝘆.
This is career reality.
 
I coach professionals on this.
Managing up without politics.
Influence without friction.
Language under pressure.
 
𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝘀𝘁𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
Every month, I open five slots.
Five free coaching sessions.
For deserving professionals only.
 
𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗼𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗰.
It’s based on your responses.
You’ll know if you qualify.
 
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.
 
If this added clarity:
𝗦𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁.
♻️Share it thoughtfully.
 
Language decides leadership perception.
 
#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝟱 𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗿𝘀
that define a 𝘁𝗼𝘅𝗶𝗰 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿
most people ignore

They don’t shout.
They don’t lose control.
In fact, they sound reasonable.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆
𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆’𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘁.

So when people ask me,
“How do you recognise one?”

I usually explain
these 5 silent behaviors.

𝟭. 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻, 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝗱𝘀

They’ll look at you.
They’ll nod along.
They’ll even say “good point.”

𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.
The decision was already made.

𝗦𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗮𝘀
never really move forward.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲,
people stop speaking at all.

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲:
Ideas are shared in reviews.
Next meeting, nothing changes.

𝟮. 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱𝘀 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲, 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀

When you do good work,
it’s treated as expected.

But the moment something slips,
that’s when feedback appears.

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗲
only mistakes get noticed.

Which slowly kills motivation.

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲:
Deadlines met, no mention.
One miss, long discussion.

𝟯. 𝗠𝗶𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀, 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁

They’ll say they’re helping.
They’ll say they’re being involved.

𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨
𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘢𝘭.

Your work gets re-done,
instead of being coached.

So confidence drops.
And ownership disappears.

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲:
Emails rewritten before sending.
Decisions checked again and again.

𝟰. 𝗛𝗶𝗱𝗲𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗰𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

You raise a genuine concern.
They respond with a policy.

  • No discussion.
  • No context.
  • No judgment.

𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗿𝘂𝗹𝗲𝘀.

After some time,
you stop trying to explain.

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲:
Special cases get rejected.
“Company policy” ends it.

𝟱. 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁, 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆

When things go well,
it’s suddenly “we.”

𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘨𝘰 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨,
𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨.

Blame travels downward.
Credit travels upward.

And high performers notice this first.

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲:
Success decks show leadership.
Post-mortems show individuals.

𝗡𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗰.
That’s what makes them dangerous.

Because the damage
happens quietly.
Day after day.

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗿,
you’re not overthinking.
You’re seeing patterns.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝘀.
Not by changing your manager.
But by changing how you respond.

One coaching call with me
normally costs $700.

But Every month,
𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀
to 5 deserving professionals.

Selection is based
on the answers you submit.
Not everyone qualifies.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗹𝘆
is in the comments.

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𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝟳 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀
that your manager
is a 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗿.

You usually don’t realise it all at once.

It shows up in small moments.

Like this.

  • Your work is discussed in a meeting.
  • The outcome is praised.
  • But your name isn’t mentioned.

You notice it.
You stay quiet.
You tell yourself it’s not worth reacting.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻.

Your slide is shared upward.
You’re not invited.
Later, someone thanks your manager for the clarity.

𝗔𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲.

  • You hear your own idea.
  • Same words. Same logic.
  • Just said by them. Days later.

𝗦𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁.

That’s when this stops being random.

𝗔 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗿 𝘂𝘀𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀.

  • They talk about outcomes, 
not contributors.

  • They say “we decided” 
when you did the work.

  • They praise you privately, 
never in the room.

  • They remove names from decks 
before sending them up.

  • They carry your work 
into spaces you’re not invited to.

  • They look strong in reviews.

  • You stay “solid.”

𝗜𝗻𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗱𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹.
Together, they form a pattern.

And once you see the pattern, 
you can’t unsee it.

This is why people bring 
𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Not because they want a fight.
But because they want clarity.

They want to know
“Is this really happening?”
or
“Am I imagining this?”

𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁.

Once the signs are clear, 
the next step becomes obvious.

  • Not loud.
  • Not emotional.
  • Just precise.

Normally, a calls investment is $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
But, I offer 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵.

Selection is based on the situation, 
not first come.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

If you’ve seen even two of these signs, 
💾𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁.

It helps to have language for what’s happening.

Share it forward as many are struggling,
♻️sharing it might help them recognise it too.

#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗿𝗹𝘆,
arguing back doesn’t help.
Here’s what does.

𝗜’𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝘆𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

Early in my career,
a review meeting escalated fast.

  • Voice got louder.
  • Facts got blurred.

𝗠𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗰𝘁?
Correct everything immediately.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗳𝘂𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘁.

  • I walked out frustrated.
  • And replayed it all night.

𝗬𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿,
I saw the pattern clearly.

Escalations feed on speed.
And emotional reactions.

𝗦𝗼 𝗜 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻.

Now I respond differently.

“I want clarity first.”

That single line pauses things.

𝗢𝗿 𝗜 𝘀𝗮𝘆,
“Let’s separate facts from interpretation.”

  • No defense.
  • No counter-attack.

Just structure.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗯𝘁𝗹𝗲.

  • Tone drops.
  • People listen again.

Nothing magical happens.
But control returns.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗶𝗻.

Not winning the argument.
Protecting credibility under pressure.

If this felt familiar,
💾save it.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗮𝘁.

And feel free to pass it along.

I work through situations like this
with senior professionals.

My regular coaching call is $𝟳𝟬𝟬.

Each month,
𝗜 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗳𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀.

Selection is thoughtful.
Based on your situation.

If you want to talk it through,
𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
💾Save this.
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𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗽𝗵𝗿𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀.
But over time, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁.
Here are 7 of the most common ones.

Here’s the thing.

Most trust problems at work 
don’t come from big mistakes.

They come from small sentences 
we repeat without thinking.

  • Nothing offensive.
  • Nothing dramatic.

Just everyday language 
that slowly changes how people read you.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻.

Take something like,
“Let’s circle back on this later.”

𝗜𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.
But to the other person, 
it often lands as uncertainty.

  • No decision. 
  • No ownership. 
  • No timeline.

Over time, that creates hesitation.
People stop counting on closure.

𝗢𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗿,
“I’ll try to get to it.”

Again, polite.
But “try” leaves space for delay.

So people compensate by following up, 
reminding, or double-checking.

That’s not efficiency.
That’s erosion of trust.

𝗔𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀,
“That’s not really my area.”

What people hear isn’t honesty.
They hear disengagement.

And trust weakens 
when responsibility feels avoidable.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗽𝗵𝗿𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲,
“Let’s not overthink this,”
can unintentionally shut down clarity.

It signals speed over thought.
And when decisions later go wrong, 
people remember who rushed past the details.

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘂𝗽.

Not as complaints.
But as quiet adjustments 
in how much confidence people place in you.

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁.

The fix isn’t about sounding polished.
It’s about replacing ambiguity with clarity.

When you say what you will do.
When you name when you’ll do it.
When you show ownership, 
even if you’re not the final decision-maker.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴.

If you found yourself recognizing a few of these,
you’re not alone.

This is exactly the kind of language 
I help professionals clean up in coaching.

Not to sound impressive.
But to sound reliable.

My regular one-on-one coaching call is $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
Each month, 𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗮𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹.

They’re not first-come.
They’re based on the 
quality of the answers.

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹,
💾save it so you catch yourself next time 
one of these phrases comes up.

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𝗣.𝗦.
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#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂
And you get irritated more than you want to
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴.

I worked with Daniel.
Senior manager.

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝗵𝗲 𝗸𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴.

  • Meetings kept increasing.
  • Decisions took forever.
  • People interrupted him “just for a minute”.
  • Roles were unclear in hybrid work.
  • He started holding things in.

𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴.
But irritation kept leaking out.

That’s when we paused.

So here is how we fixed the situation.

First, he stopped asking vague questions.

𝗛𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱,
“I need the outcome and the deadline before I proceed.”

Next, he blocked two no-meeting slots every week.

𝗛𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱,
“I’ll join only if a decision is needed.”

Then, decision delays.

𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗮𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱,
“If I don’t hear back by Thursday, I’ll move ahead with option A.”

𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗿𝘂𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲.

“I’m in the middle of something.
Can we talk at 3.”

𝗛𝘆𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗱 𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁.
He said,
“For this project, I own delivery.
You own approval.”

  • That’s it.
  • No confrontation.
  • No long talks.

𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘄𝗹𝘆, 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱.

  • Fewer interruptions.
  • Clearer decisions.
  • Less irritation.

𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿, 𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗺𝗲,

“I’m calmer.
Work feels lighter.
People respond faster.”

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.
We fix practical work issues together.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀,
then we should talk.

My one coaching call 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
Every month, I also offer 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀.

𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.
Not first-come.

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𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝟱 𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗲𝘀
of a micromanager
most people experience
but rarely name.

  • They don’t yell.
  • They don’t abuse.
  • They look “concerned”.

Yet working with them
𝘀𝗹𝗼𝘄𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲,
energy,
and growth.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝘆.

👇

𝟭. 𝗟𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁

It usually isn’t about you.
It’s about their past.

Someone betrayed them.
Or blamed them earlier.

𝗦𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘄,
every new idea
feels risky to them.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:
Don’t surprise them.
Make approvals visible.

—

𝟮. 𝗙𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗙𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘂𝗿𝗲

Mistakes feel personal.
Not professional.

If something goes wrong,
they feel exposed.

So they control everything.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:
Share progress early.
Even when not asked.

—

𝟯. 𝗙𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗝𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗲𝗱

They aren’t watching you.
They’re watching upwards.

“How will seniors see this?”
is always running in their head.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:
Show your thinking.
Not just final results.

—

𝟰. 𝗛𝘂𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

Control feels like relevance.
Visibility feels like safety.

So they hold the spotlight tight.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:
Publicly align them
to shared wins.

—

𝟱. 𝗙𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗜𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲

Your growth scares them.
Because it threatens position.

Not intentionally.
But emotionally.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀:
Frame ideas as support.
Not disruption.

—

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗿,
then there is a solution.

You’re not stuck.
You’re navigating psychology.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹.
One that can be mastered.
With the help of coaching.

𝗠𝘆 𝟭:𝟭 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗲𝗲
is $700.

But every month,
𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀
to 5 deserving individuals.

Selection is based
on your responses.

  • No guarantees.
  • No mass slots.

𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝘃𝗮𝗶𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹
is in the comments section.

If you want to read more about this topic.

👉 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁:
“What to Do When Your Manager Micromanages”

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𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸?
Don’t justify. Don’t defend.
Say this instead.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝘀𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱.

Most workplace damage 
doesn’t happen when something is missed.
𝗜𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁.

I’ve watched this play out 
more times than I can count.

𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗸.
Or a dependency in a plan.
Or a deadline that looked “minor” until it wasn’t.

They feel exposed.
So they start explaining.

  • They talk about timelines.
  • They mention workload.
  • They add context to prove they’re usually reliable.

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺.

  • The other side isn’t listening for effort.
  • They’re listening for certainty.

𝗜 𝘀𝗮𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 
with a senior leader I worked with recently.

He missed a small 
but visible requirement in a client review.

As soon as it was flagged, 
he went into explanation mode.

  • Why it happened.
  • Who gave which input.
  • What changed last minute.

𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴.
But the room got quieter.

𝗦𝗼 𝘄𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 
and changed just the language.

𝗡𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱:

“I missed this. That’s on me.
I’ll update it today and send a clean version by 5.”

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗶𝘁.

  • No defence.
  • No story.
  • No emotional clean-up.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆.

  • The client relaxed.
  • The conversation moved forward.
  • His credibility stayed intact.

Same mistake.
Different signal.

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀.

When you miss something, 
people around you are silently asking:

  • Do you see it clearly?
  • Do you own it fully?
  • Can you move us forward?

𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿𝘀.
Short ownership delivers them.

That’s why simple language works under pressure.
Not because it’s polite.
But because it reduces uncertainty fast.

The scripts in the visual above 
are built around that idea.

They’re short on purpose.
They remove noise before it spreads.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗽𝘁𝘀.

They need help recognising the moment, 
choosing the right one, 
and delivering it calmly when pressure is high.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗜 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.

I normally charge $𝟳𝟬𝟬 for a private coaching call.
Each month, 𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀.

They’re selected based on responses, not first-come.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.
𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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If you’re working with a 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁-𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿
Who takes your work and presents it as theirs
Here are 𝟳 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝘁.

Let me walk you through a real situation.

A client of mine, Andrew.
Strong performer. Quiet. Reliable.

Every big meeting followed the same pattern.

  • He did the work.
  • His manager presented it.
  • Leadership praised the manager.

That was a loss of visibility for Andrew.

𝗦𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄
We fixed the situation.

Here’s exactly what changed.

𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.

When his manager started explaining his idea,
Andrew calmly added one line.

“This builds on the model 
I shared last week.”

  • That was it.
  • No tension.
  • Name back in the room.

𝗡𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲.

Andrew stopped confronting 
in the moment when angry.

If something bothered him, 
he waited a day.

Then spoke flat. 
with data.

𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀, 
he started sending recap emails.

“Quick summary.
I’ll own the analysis.
You’ll take it forward with leadership.”

𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆.
Just written ownership.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀, 
he sent one short note 
directly to stakeholders.

“Sharing context before 
tomorrow’s discussion.
Happy to walk through 
my part if useful.”

Now leadership 
𝗵𝗮𝗱 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴.

In conversations, 
he changed his language.

𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 “𝗜 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀.”
Or staying silent.

𝗛𝗲 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵.

“We agreed on the direction.
I led the risk analysis.”

That increased his visibility
in a collaborative way.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁𝗹𝘆, 
he built one skip-level connection.

𝗪𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀, 
he didn't gossip or complained

Just occasional updates on work.

𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿, 
something shifted.

𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱 
asking him questions directly.

𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 
rewriting his work as “mine.”

𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 
reflected his impact.

This is how credit stealing 
actually gets fixed.

without confrontation.
And with a proper structure.

This is also why people 
𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Because they want control
without fights.

If you want personal help 
then we should talk.

my normal coaching call is $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹
each month to 5 deserving individuals.

𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 
not first-come.

If this sounds like your reality,
𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁.
You’ll need these lines.

𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸
And not getting cooperation
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀

I worked with Daniel.
Senior Architect.

This was his pattern.

  • He would ask for support.
  • The answer would be no.
  • He would explain again.
  • He would follow up.
  • He would push harder.

Each time, cooperation dropped.
Each time, resistance went up.
Nothing moved.

𝗦𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝘅𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

First, he stopped pushing.
Not forever.
Just for that moment.

𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱:

“I hear the no. 
What would need to change 
for this to become a yes later.”

𝗡𝗲𝘅𝘁, 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸.

He said:

“Where does this fit 
in your priority list right now.”

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄-𝘂𝗽𝘀.

  • No reminders.
  • No pressure.

𝗛𝗲 𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲:

“Let me know when this becomes 
the right time on your side.”

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗱.

The stake holders started reopening the topic.

  • Questions came back.
  • Timelines appeared.
  • Support followed.

Not in a week.
But over time.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 
𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

This is how this problem actually gets fixed.

People bring this issue to coaching all the time.
They think the problem is effort.
It’s usually structure and language.

If you are also tired of people issues
Then we need to talk.

𝗠𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.

But the good news is, 
𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵.

Selection is based on the situation.
Not first-come.

𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗣𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆 ruins careers
𝗣𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 creates growth
Here’s the difference

Most people don’t intend
to push others away.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆’𝗿𝗲 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴

  • to be honest.
  • To be clear.
  • To stand their ground.

𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲
they’re doing
and what others experience
are very different things.

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻.

When you push away,
you disagree fast.

  • You state your opinion.
  • You hold your position.
  • You expect others to accept it.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁.
But people stop listening.

  • Trust quietly drops.
  • Conversations shrink.
  • Influence fades.

𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸
𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿.

It’s smarter.

You still disagree.
But you slow the moment down.

  • You explain your thinking.
  • You ask questions first.
  • You focus on outcomes.

You show alignment
before resistance.

𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘶𝘴𝘦 “𝘸𝘦”
𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 “𝘐”.

  • You offer options.
  • Not ultimatums.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻
to being wrong.

Same courage.
𝗩𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁.

This isn’t communication.
𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗽𝘀𝘆𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆.

And psychology
is a skill.

𝘈 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘭𝘭
𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘥.

If this felt familiar,
there is a solution.

Every month,
𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀
to 5 deserving individuals.

My 1:1 coaching fee
𝗶𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬 𝗽𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻.

These free calls
are not first-come.

They’re offered
based on your responses.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗹𝘆
𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

If you qualify,
you’ll see the slot.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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Sometimes,
this clarity
changes someone’s career.

#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘁𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗽𝘂𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘁
and your thoughts need arranging,
𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁.

Let me explain this the way it actually happens.

𝗔 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲.
Not planned.
Not safe.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂.

And in that moment,
your brain isn’t empty.
It’s just messy.

Thoughts are there.
But not in order yet.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻
is start answering anyway.

𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.

So they talk while thinking.
And halfway through,
they realise this isn’t what they wanted to speak.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻?
Due to pressure.

What I’ve seen effective leaders do differently
is very simple.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝗺𝗽 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿.

They say one small line first.

𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲,
“Let me think this through.”

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗺,
“I’m taking this seriously.”

𝗢𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘀𝗮𝘆,
“Can I check one thing first?”

And suddenly the rush slows down.
The spotlight softens.

𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝘁’𝘀,
“Before I answer, can I ask something?”

Now it’s not you being tested.
It’s a conversation again.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲,
“Let me think about the impact,”
changes the energy.

𝗜𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗱
to sense.

None of these avoid the question.
They just buy you a few seconds
to line things up in your head.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀.

Leading an effective meeting
isn’t about having faster answers.

It’s about knowing how to create
a small pause
without making it awkward.

𝗢𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀,
you’ll notice the room changes.

  • People stop interrupting.
  • Your answers sound clearer.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗸 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴,
“I should have said that better.”

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗲𝗱, 𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘁.
These are the lines you forget
exactly when pressure hits.

This is the kind of work I do with professionals.
Not scripts.
Not tricks.

Just helping them handle moments like this better.

A private coaching call with me 𝗶𝘀 𝘂𝘀𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
Each month, I open 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀.

They’re not first-come.
I choose based on the situation.

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗮𝗻𝘁,
the booking link is in the comments.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝟳 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀
Your boss doesn’t want to hear
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝘄?

I want you to picture a real moment.

You’re in a meeting.
A senior asks a question you didn’t expect.
There’s a pause.
All eyes turn to you.

  • You don’t panic.
  • You answer.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀... 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.

Something like,
“No one told me this was urgent.”

Or,
“I already tried that.”

Nothing dramatic.
You didn't raised voice.
You didn't argued.

But the room changes slightly.

𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀.

Your boss isn’t reacting to what you meant.
They’re reacting to what the sentence signals.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗲𝘅𝘁.
It sounds like you’re stepping away from ownership.

“𝗜 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁” doesn’t sound experienced.
It sounds like the discussion is closed.

“𝗜 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲” doesn’t sound confident.
It sounds like resistance, 
even when none was intended.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿.

They think,
“I did my job.”
“I answered honestly.”
“I wasn’t rude.”

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆’𝗿𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁.

"𝘉𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦, 𝘸𝘦 𝘫𝘶𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴
𝘣𝘺 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵. 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦
𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘫𝘶𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘶𝘴 𝘣𝘺 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘴."

This is what they judge you for:

  • Are you owning the outcome?
  • Are you open?
  • Are you solution-oriented under stress?

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗷𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗯𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗹.

Even they don't know it.
They just remember.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.
It’s slightly different responses 
in the same moments.

Taking half a second before answering.
Leading with ownership before explanation.

Softening disagreement so the 
conversation stays open.

  • Same competence.
  • Different signal.

That’s the part most professionals 
never get feedback on.

This is actually what comes up 
in coaching conversations.

Not goals or ambition.
But these everyday 
pressure moments 
people replay later 
and think,

“𝗜 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗵 𝗜’𝗱 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆.”

If this felt familiar, then we should talk.

𝗠𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝘀 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
But every month 𝗜 𝗴𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗱 
and based on situation,
not first come.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀,
use these 7 ways.
𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻.

Let me take you through a real situation.

You noticed something was off today.
You knew it the moment it was said.

  • A number.
  • A timeline.
  • A decision that will cause issues later.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.
Because you didn’t wanted to disappoint.

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗽𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁.
That’s the moment that matters.

What usually goes wrong there 
is the first sentence.

People jump straight to the correction.
Or they rush.

Or their tone comes out 
harsher than they expect.

𝗦𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝘀.

slow the room down first.

Say,
“Can I check one thing before we move on?”

That one line buys you space.

𝗜𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀 
that you’re not challenging them.

𝗢𝗿 𝘀𝗮𝘆,
“Just to make sure I’m understanding this right…”

Now you’re not correcting.
You’re clarifying.

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝘀𝗮𝘆,

“From what we’ve seen so far, 
this might play out differently.”

𝗕𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀
You’ve shifted the focus to outcomes.

𝗜𝗳 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗻𝘂𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝘀𝗮𝘆,
“Based on last quarter’s data…”

  • Now it’s facts.
  • Not opinion.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 
𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗹.

Your boss doesn’t hear resistance.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁.

They don’t feel corrected.
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗲𝗱.

That’s why they listen.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝟳 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹.
They protect the relationship
while still protecting the work.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 
into coaching conversations with me.

Not big confidence issues.
Small moments that repeat every week.

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀,
we work on mastering exactly this.

𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿, 
when it comes to promotion & growth

𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗲
where as communication plays a major role.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀,
𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸.

A normal coaching call with me is $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
Every month i offer 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀
To 5 deserving individuals.

Those are not first-come.
I choose based on the situation.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
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𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗲𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿
But promotions keep missing you
𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴

I worked with Andrew
Tech Lead

This was the pattern.

  • He delivered on time
  • His work quality was solid
  • His manager trusted him

𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝘀 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝘂𝗽
𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴

Every review sounded the same.

  • “Strong contributor.”
  • “Very dependable.”
  • “Let’s revisit next cycle.”

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗲𝗱.

He was doing the work.
But the work wasn’t travelling.

𝗦𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝘅𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

First, we changed how he gave updates.
Earlier, he would say,
“I completed the analysis.”

𝗪𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗼,
“This reduced review time by two days.”

Then we worked on meetings.

Earlier, he would wait.
Speak last.
Or not speak at all.

We changed that to one line at the start.

“I want to flag 
what moved the outcome this week.”

Next, we fixed how his work showed up 
when he wasn’t in the room.

𝗘𝗮𝗿𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗿, 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀.

Now he sent one short recap.
Two lines.
Outcome first.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗱.
But it was clear.

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱.

His manager started referencing his work.
Leadership started asking him questions directly.

𝗦𝗶𝘅 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿,
The promotion conversation came back.
This time, it moved.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗳𝗶𝘅𝗲𝗱.

People bring this exact issue 
to coaching all the time.

Not because they aren’t good.
But because their work stays 
trapped where they do it.

Coaching helps change the structure 
around the work.

How it shows up.
How it travels.
How it gets remembered.

𝗔 𝗽𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 $𝟳𝟬𝟬.
But the good news it that

𝗜 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝟱 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵.
Selection is based on the situation.
Not first come.

If this sounds like your reality, save this post.
You’ll need these lines.

𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.

𝗣.𝗦.

𝗕𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗹,
💾Save this.
♻️Share it.


#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝟱 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴.
It’s the fastest way to turn resistance into momentum.
 
I’ve watched brilliant leaders do everything right — 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀.
 
 • They spend weeks crafting the perfect plan.
 • They analyze every risk.
 • They polish every detail.
 
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘁...
It falls apart within minutes.
 
Not because the idea was bad.
But because they planned in isolation.
 
𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲, 𝘆𝗼𝘂:
 
 • Miss the blind spots.
 • Ignore the politics.
 • Lose early buy-in.
 
So instead of support — you face pushback.
 
𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁:
 
Before you plan anything, talk to these 5 people:
 
1️⃣ A direct report — sees the ground reality.
2️⃣ A cross-functional peer — spots the ripple effects.
3️⃣ A culture carrier — knows what will land.
4️⃣ A stakeholder with influence — can champion you.
5️⃣ A healthy skeptic — tests your thinking.
 
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘁:
 
List these 5 people right now.
 
Book a 15-minute chat with each.
 
Share your early thinking — 𝗻𝗼 𝘀𝗹𝗶𝗱𝗲𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗲𝗱.
 
Listen for risks and opportunities.
 
Adjust your plan with their input.
 
𝗕𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘁,
it won’t just be your plan —
it will feel like their plan too.
 
𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗺.
 
This idea comes from my “First 100 Days Playbook” —
27 proven steps to help new managers build trust and win early.
 
💬 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬𝟬 𝗗𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 and I’ll send it your way.
♻️ Save this before your next big planning session.
 
#𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 #𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 #𝗱𝗻𝗮𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 #𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀

As the Head of Product Marketing at OfBusiness, I lead the marketing efforts for BidAssist, our innovative SaaS product that empowers enterprises and SMEs to expand their government business. I am passionate about leveraging AI/ML to provide valuable insights and solutions to our customers, who access the latest tenders and results from our extensive 5Cr+ database across 200+ countries.

I have an MBA from IIM Rohtak and a BE from JMIT, and I bring over 5+ years of experience in product marketing, social media marketing, and marketing strategy. I take pride in being part of a forward-thinking team that is revolutionizing the way businesses approach government tenders and opportunities. I am always eager to connect and discuss industry trends and strategies with fellow professionals and potential partners. Feel free to reach out if you're interested in exploring how BidAssist can be a game-changer for your organization.

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