Work Life Intelligence Expert | Wellness Advocate | Mom of 4 l Evidence-based tools to excel at work and thrive in life 🌿

Struggling to keep up.... 

Even though you’re doing everything “right”?

You’ve built the career.
You’re capable, driven, and responsible.
And yet… life still feels heavier than it should.

There’s no secret formula (sorry).

But there is a way forward.

It starts with understanding how you actually operate.

Your stress response, energy patterns, boundaries, and decision-making - and building your life around that.

That’s the work I do ✨

I help high-achieving professionals create a life where success, health, and personal fulfillment can coexist - without burning out or constantly feeling behind.

My work blends:
🌿 Behavioral science + emotional intelligence
🌿 Practical tools for stress, boundaries, and clarity
🌿 Accountability and support so change actually sticks

As a founder, CEO, and mom of four, I understand the pressure and the juggle firsthand. I also know it is possible to create success that feels steady instead of exhausting.

🔖 How to start:

Get my free weekly Work-Life Intelligence tips (best place to begin): 
👉 https://www.healthymindsetliving.com/join-us

Explore private coaching 
👉 https://www.healthymindsetliving.com/letsworktogether

Self-guided Tools
👉 https://creatyl.com/cdfrosty

Always cheering you on,
Dr. Carolyn

Dr. Carolyn Frost

You don’t need a perfect day.

You need three small wins.

Success isn’t built in big moments alone.

It’s built in the small, repeatable actions that quietly compound over time.

These 3 wins transform everything:

💪🏽 A Physical Win:
↳ Book walking meetings for 1:1 calls
↳ 60 seconds of jumping jacks before big meetings
↳ Match your coffee breaks with movement

🧠 An Intellectual Win:
↳ Delete one app that drains your attention
↳ Teach a friend or child something you just learned
↳ Create a "done list" instead of a to-do list

✨ A Spiritual Win:
↳ Send an unexpected voice note of appreciation
↳ Create space for 3 minutes of complete silence
↳ Leave an encouraging note on someone's desk

When you actively seek these wins, you'll spot them everywhere.

One win leads to another.
Success starts attracting success.

This is how progress becomes sustainable, and success stops feeling so heavy.

Which win will spark your positive spiral today?

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Work-Life Intelligence Expert | Behavioral science + EQ to help you grow your career without losing yourself | Mom of 4 🌿

Why some names come up first in important rooms.

(Hint: It’s not luck)

It usually has nothing to do with being the best in the room.

Names come up first because someone feels confident attaching their credibility to you.

That confidence gets built in small moments people remember.

People notice 👀

↳ How you respond when things go sideways
↳ If your judgment makes situations clearer or messier
↳ If working with you feels steady or draining
↳ How you talk about others when stakes are high

If you want your name to come up more often, focus here ⬇️

↳ Make it easier to work with you, not harder
↳ Be clear instead of impressive
↳ Follow through consistently
↳ Protect other people’s credibility, not just your own

Because opportunities don’t go to effort alone.
They go to trust ✨

Which of these matters most where you work?

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Your title doesn't make you a success. 

Being easy to work with does.

This isn't just a work skill. 
It's a life skill.

7 ways to be easy to work with (and live with) ✨

1) Listen before you speak 
↳ At work: "Help me understand your perspective" 
↳ At home: Put the phone down when someone's talking to you

2) Make others feel heard 
↳ At work: "So you're saying..." before responding 
↳ At home: "That sounds frustrating" before trying to fix

3) Share credit generously 
↳ At work: "Thanks to [name] for making this possible" 
↳ At home: "I couldn't do this without your support"

4) Stay calm when others can't 
↳ At work: Lower your voice when tensions rise 
↳ At home: Take a breath before reacting to difficult news

5) Admit when you don't know 
↳ At work: "I'll find out by end of day" 
↳ At home: "You know what? I was wrong about that"

6) Ask questions that help others think 
↳ At work: "What would success look like?" 
↳ At home: "What do you think would help?" instead of jumping to solutions

7) Remember what matters to them 
↳ At work: Ask about their weekend plans 
↳ At home: Remember the little things they mentioned

The most valuable skill isn't on your resume.
It's how people feel when they're with you ✨

Which habit changes everything for you today?

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Stop letting work invade every corner of your life.

12 boundaries that put you back in control 👇🏼

Every notification. 
Every "quick question" at 8pm. 
Every weekend email marked "urgent."

They're not just interruptions. 
They're invasions.

It starts as dedication. 

But slowly transforms into a life where you are perpetually exhausted but never quite "done."

It ends now.

💥 12 Scripts That Command Respect:

1) "I'm offline after 6pm, but I'll get back to you at 9am" 
↳ Don't justify or apologize. Simple statement, clear expectations.

2) "I've blocked focus time until 2pm, happy to connect right after" 
↳ Assume agreement rather than asking permission.

3) "This needs my full attention, let's set 30 min tomorrow" 
↳ Position boundaries as beneficial to work quality.

4) "I don't check email on weekends - text me only if it's urgent" 
↳ Create a specific emergency channel, keep it sacred.

5) "I have a hard stop at [time], what should we prioritize now?" 
↳ Frame it as prioritization, not avoidance.

6) "I'm stepping away for an hour and will check messages once I'm back" 
↳ Normalize breaks as part of professional behavior.

7) "That time's set aside for deep work, can we meet [day] instead?" 
↳ Empty calendar time isn't available time. Protect it.

8) "This might be better over email - happy to reply thoughtfully" 
↳ Reframe efficiency as a professional value.

9) "I'm at capacity through [day], which task should I pause to fit this in?" 
↳ Make trade-offs visible rather than absorbing more work.

10) "I don't take calls during my commute - it's reset time" 
↳ Position boundaries as performance enhancement, not selfishness.

11) "Tonight is family time - I can jump in tomorrow" 
↳ Name what you're protecting instead of apologizing.

12) "That's outside my bandwidth - [Name] might be able to help"  
↳ Redirect without guilt or over-explanation.

Your boundaries protect what matters most. 
Make them non-negotiable ✨

Which script will help you reclaim your peace today?

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12 Boundaries That Protect Your Time

You’re not behind in life.

You’re right on time.

It may not feel that way.

Especially when it seems like everyone else has it “figured out.”

But here’s what’s usually true:

1: You’re more selective
↳ You don’t chase everything anymore.

2: You know what doesn’t work
↳ That clarity only comes from experience.

3: You move with more intention
↳ Fewer decisions. Better ones.

4: You value peace more than speed
↳ And that’s growth, not laziness.

5: You trust yourself more
↳ Even when things are still unfolding.

Try this today:

Instead of asking, “Why am I not there yet?”
Ask, “What do I know now that I didn’t before?”

You’re not late.
You’re becoming ✨

What’s one thing you’re clearer about now than a few years ago? Share below 👇🏼

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10 visuals to sharpen how you think 

(and improve how you work under pressure)

Not motivation.
Not hustle.

Clear thinking changes how you decide, communicate, and follow through - especially on busy days.

(All visuals by @joazolins on Instagram)

1️⃣ Your potential is bigger than you think
↳ Most people underestimate what consistency actually unlocks

2️⃣ People are influenced more by what you do than what you say
↳ Behavior builds trust faster than explanations

3️⃣ You’re trying to fit too much into limited space
↳ Overwhelm is often a signal to subtract, not push harder

4️⃣ Small kindness has outsized impact
↳ What feels minor to you can mean a lot to someone else

5️⃣ Working tired isn’t productive
↳ True rest first leads to better work after

6️⃣ Short-term action beats long-term waiting
↳ Progress comes from doing, not planning longer

7️⃣ Trying and failing is how progress actually works
↳ Avoiding failure keeps things exactly the same

8️⃣ If you can’t do big things, do small things well
↳ Care and attention compound over time

9️⃣ Perfection often hides procrastination
↳ Refining the trivial stuff delays what actually matters

🔟 Starting is the hardest part
↳ Overwhelm peaks early, then eases once you move

Clear thinking isn’t abstract.
It shows up in better choices, better work, and less friction.

Which visual stood out to you today?

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10 Visuals to Sharpen How You Think

You don’t need more time.

You need better resets.

Most people try to push through distraction.
That’s why focus keeps slipping.

Resets restore what effort can’t.

Here are 21 micro-resets that actually bring focus back.
(All take under 2 minutes)

🔕 Stop all input
👀 Look far away
😮‍💨 Release your jaw
🌬️ Physiological sigh
🦵 Stretch your calves
✅ Close one loop
❄️ Temperature contrast
🧍 Reset your posture
👁️ Blink fast
✍️ Name what’s next
🚪 Change rooms
⏳ Slow your exhale
✋ Unclench your hands
🚶 One-minute walk
🧹 Reduce visual noise
🗣️ Say one sentence out loud
🌿 Look at something green
🔢 Count backward by sevens
🧘 Drop your shoulders
🎧 Change sensory input
⏸️ Do nothing on purpose

Focus doesn’t disappear.
It gets overloaded.

The people who stay sharp reset early and often.

Which one will you try today?

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21 Micro-Resets That Actually Restore Focus

Julianne Cantarella

Julianne Cantarella is a Licensed Social Worker and Certified Life Coach who has spent her entire career helping those in need. After years of working with some of the most vulnerable populations, she was presented with the unique opportunity to help people find love and create the relationship of their dreams through matchmaking and date coaching.

After years in the Matchmaking industry, it became clear to Julianne that her true purpose (and passion) is to EMPOWER women to take control of their love lives so they can create the relationship they desire and deserve. A renowned relationship expert and dating coach, Julianne is the creator of a comprehensive one-of-a-kind, transformational- date coaching program From First Date to Soulmate™ that has helped hundreds of women find love. Another credit to Julianne’s expertise is that she not only talks the talks, but she walks the walk as she has been married to her soul mate and best friend since 1996 and together they have three children.

ICF Certified Life Coach specializing in Date & Relationship Coaching for Professional Women & Men.

New Jersey's Matchmaker

Dating and Relationship Expert ~ Dating Coach and Matchmaker.
*Specializing in helping those divorced, widowed or still searching create the relationship they desire and deserve.
*Identifying clients relationship goals, while helping them overcome obstacles that keep them single.
*Providing appropriate matches based on years of experience

CEO/President

eHarmony.com

Matchmaking Consultant

2024 marks my 19th year as a professional relationship expert with a 93% success rate to my credit. And by successes I mean marriages and long-term committed relationships. 
 
As a Licensed Social Worker and Associate Certified Coach (ACC) credentialed through ICF,  I've spent my entire career helping those in need. However, it was in 2005, after years of working with some of the most vulnerable populations, that my career took a turn and my passion was born. I was presented with the unique opportunity to help people find love and create the relationship of their dreams through matchmaking and date coaching. But, after years in the Matchmaking industry, it became clear to me that my true purpose (and passion) is to EMPOWER women and men to take control of their love lives so they can create the relationships they desire and deserve. 

A crucial aspect of my coaching is to master effective communication skills, learn to set boundaries and cultivate a more positive mindset. Additionally, I focus on teaching communication strategies that promote understanding, empathy, and conflict resolution, laying the foundation for deeper connections and intimacy. Recognizing the transformative power of fostering a positive mindset, I help clients overcome limiting beliefs, and negative patterns of behavior so they can approach dating and relationships with optimism and confidence. By integrating these elements into my coaching process, I empower my clients with both the tools and mindset they need to create lasting, fulfilling relationships.

A little more: Julianne is the creator of a comprehensive one-of-a-kind, transformational- date coaching program From First Date to Soulmate™ that has helped hundreds of women and men find love. Another credit to Julianne’s expertise is that she not only talks the talks, but she walks the walk as she has been married to her soul mate and best friend since 1996, together they have three children and two very awesome dogs!

Other Specialties: 
~ Date & Relationship Coaching
~ Online Dating
~ Personal Online Dating Consulting
~ Online Profile Writing

You can find out more here: https://juliannecantarella.com/

***Julianne also offers boutique matchmaking for a select number of men through her company New Jersey's Matchmaker. 
For more information call 201-297-7857.

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