Marketing doesn’t have to be complicated. It just has to work.

For the past 18+ years, I’ve been cutting through the noise, helping entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and SMBs turn chaotic marketing efforts into structured, scalable, and ROI-driven systems.

I didn’t start as a marketing expert—I started as someone frustrated by the BS.
❌ Agencies that overpromise and underdeliver.
❌ Tactics that drain budgets without results.
❌ Advice that sounds good but doesn’t scale.

So, I made it my mission to figure out what actually works—without the jargon, the fluff, or the wasted effort.

What I Do Best:
✔ Performance marketing audits – Find out what’s working, what’s wasting your budget, and what needs to change.
✔ AI-powered growth strategies – Use AI & automation the right way to scale without burning time & money.
✔ Content that converts – No gimmicks, just psychology-backed storytelling that turns readers into buyers.

Marketing isn’t dead.
But bad marketing is.

If your marketing isn’t generating revenue, let’s fix it.

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Mallika Rao

Navigate High Stakes Transitions without Burnout | Award-Winning Coach | Neuroscience-backed InnerEdge™️ Method | 650+ Breakthroughs | Trusted by Leaders at Google, IBM, IKEA | DM to inquire

Transitions - Personal or professional can be challenging.  
Not because you lack capability.

They get harder because the cost of every decision suddenly rises.

You already know how to do your job.
You’ve earned your seat through competence, credibility, and results.

But during leadership transitions - new roles, senior responsibilities, or personal setback, the pressure shifts:

• Decisions carry more weight
• Stakeholders pull in competing directions
• Visibility increases, while margin for error shrinks
• Emotional regulation becomes as important as technical skill

This is where many strong leaders struggle, not due to lack of ability, but because self-leadership, clarity, and influence become critical differentiators.

I work with seasoned leaders navigating high-pressure career transitions.

Leaders typically come to me in one of three situations:

1. Leadership Under Pressure
When complexity, pace, and constant demands create overwhelm & anxiety.

→ We work on restoring composure, regulating internal noise, and improving decision clarity so you can lead without reactivity or burnout.

2. Executive Transitions
When stepping into a senior role or a new organisation. The first 90 days are critical. 

→ We focus on establishing credibility, navigating stakeholders, and leading with confidence early, without over-functioning.

3. Speak with Impact & Executive Presence
There is only one quality that sets the top 1% leaders apart - communicating with emotional intelligence & presence.

→ I teach my proprietary framework, which I have developed in my two decades of experience in HR, Training & Speaking, so you speak with impact and create influence as a Leader.

Across all engagements, leaders experience:

→ Better decisions under pressure
→ Stronger emotional intelligence with teams and stakeholders
→ Clear, confident communication in high-stakes situations
→ Increased influence without politics or force
→ High performance without compromising health or personal life

Over the last 15+ years, I’ve worked 1:1 with 660+ leaders and 15000+ through keynotes and workshops, globally, including those at Google, Salesforce, IBM, and other complex, high-stakes environments.

What they develop is InnerEdge - the ability to lead themselves and people under pressure and complexity without absorbing chaos.

If you’re navigating a career transition and want to lead with calm, clarity, and confidence, DM “IMPACT” to know how we can work together. 

I work with a limited number of clients at a time to ensure depth and focus.

Life Coach, Mindfulness Teacher & Speaker

Life Coach & Wellbeing Mentor since 2016, helping leaders achieve their personal and professional goals with CALM, CLARITY & CONFIDENCE. Worked with over 600 professionals and entrepreneurs across 3 continents through 1:1 and Group Coaching.

As a Mindfulness speaker and workshop leader, I have helped over 120000 professionals overcome anxiety and practice holistic well-being. I work with organizations in creating and implementing Employee wellness programs that improve teamwork and productivity.

Mindfulness & Meditation Teacher since 2012: I teach Mindfulness and Meditation in groups and also offer 1:1 sessions.

Unpopular advice!


Some of the most serious leaders I work with…don’t need more strategy.

→ They need better sleep.
→ More laughter.
→ And fewer arguments…….in their head.

This week alone, I had:

→ A senior director who handled a tough email without spiraling.

→ A founder who finally paused before reacting in a board meeting.

→ A leader who chose to play with his child instead of reopening his laptop at 9:30 pm.

None of these required a new MBA.

They required regulation.

High performance isn’t built in intensity alone.

It’s built in recovery.

And sometimes the most “advanced leadership skill” looks like:

→ Closing the laptop to pay attention to people. 
→ Smile more often. 
→ Not replying immediately.
→ Spending time on things that rejuvenate you. 

We glorify hustle.

But the leaders who last?

They protect their nervous system like they protect their revenue.

So here’s your Friday reminder:

If you’re exhausted, it’s not a character flaw.
It’s a signal.

Before you optimise your Q4 strategy…
optimise your energy.

And if this week felt heavier than it should have, maybe it’s time we worked on your internal capacity, not just your calendar.

Happy Friday. 
Go recover like a professional.

Award-Winning Executive Coach | Meditation & Mindfulness Teacher | Keynote Speaker | Trusted by 1100+ Leaders - Google, Salesforce, TATA & more Globally

Do you ever feel like certain people keep draining your energy… no matter how hard you try to be professional?

You try to stay patient.

You explain things clearly.
You try to be reasonable.
You give people the benefit of the doubt.

But the same patterns repeat.

The same drama.
The same manipulation.
The same unnecessary friction.

And after a while, you begin asking:

Why do I keep ending up in these situations?

There’s a simple but uncomfortable truth many high performers eventually discover.

Some people are exactly who they are.

They are not confused.
They are not unaware.

They are simply behaving according to their nature.

The real question is not why they act that way.

The real question is:

Why do you keep engaging with the circus?

Einstein said, ´Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.’

High performers often fall into this trap.

They believe if they explain better…
work harder…
or stay patient longer…

things will eventually improve.

But sometimes the real leadership skill is not fixing the situation.

It is recognising patterns and stepping away from them.

Boundaries are not hostility.

They are clarity.

And clarity protects your time, your attention, and your energy.

Because if you want to lead well, build meaningful work, and live a balanced life…

you cannot spend your best energy managing unnecessary chaos.

Sometimes the most powerful decision is simple.

Stop buying tickets to the circus.

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Yesterday, I visited my parents.
And learned a lesson, I needed the most. 


It was mid-week.
Middle of work.
Middle of deadlines.

My mom had requested I visit her this Wednesday.

So I blocked a few hours and went.

We had a good lunch and as I was about to leave, she said,
“Why don’t you stay back? Let’s go to the farmers market.”

My first instinct was to tell her how busy I am. 

Hundred errands running in my head.

But something about the way she asked made me stay. 

Around 5 pm, we walked to the weekly farmers market set up a kilometer away.

Local farmers. Fresh produce. Cheerful faces. - a far cry from the high-end supermarkets I generally buy from. 

The stores look so well organised and air-conditioned, but they could never beat the fresh organic produce I saw at the farmers market. 

Vendors greeting my mother, as if they have known each other for years.

One insisting I buy a leafy green - “better than iron supplements” she said. 

A fish seller who knew exactly what my father prefers, packed it without asking twice.

And of course, fresh jasmine flowers on the way out.

27 kilometers from where I live, this felt like a different world……yet familiar! 

I grew up around vegetable and flower farms, my mind seem to associate abundance with freshness. With soil. With simplicity.

The place, people and the abundance gave a deep sense of peace & joy. 

And something else…..

This wasn’t about vegetables.

This was my mother’s love language.

She doesn’t necessarily want efficiency.
She doesn’t want app convenience.
She wants shared moments.

I could easily give her three faster ways to get groceries delivered at her doorsteps. 

But I cannot replace what that walk meant to her.

As leaders, we optimise everything.

Speed.
Systems.
Efficiency.

But relationships don’t deepen through optimisation.

They deepen through presence.

Especially with elderly parents.

These are their golden years.

They don’t need grand gestures.
They need small shared rituals.

Learn their love language.

It might be a market walk.
A cup of tea.
A phone call without multitasking.

Trust me, when you speak in that language, the connection deepens.

And years from now, what you’ll have is less regrets and many fond memories.

It will be like the jasmine flowers you bought on a wednesday evening!

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Are you more irritable lately, and even small things trigger you faster?


The delayed email.
The half-prepared team member.
The tone in that message.

Things that normally wouldn’t bother you… suddenly do.

You don’t explode.
You’re still “professional.”

But internally?

→ Your patience is thinner.
→ Your tone is sharper.
→ Your recovery time is longer.

Here’s what most high performers get wrong:

You think it’s about the situation.

It’s not.

It’s about capacity.

When your internal bandwidth is low - sleep debt, decision fatigue, personal transitions, constant pressure, your nervous system starts scanning for threat.

And everything feels like one.

That’s why:

→ Feedback feels like criticism.
→ Questions feel like doubt.
→ Delays feel like disrespect.

You don’t have an anger problem.

You have a recovery problem.

Calm leaders aren’t calm because nothing triggers them.

They’re calm because they reset faster.

Here’s a simple protocol:

1️⃣ Don’t respond immediately, especially if your body is tight.

2️⃣ Change your physiology first (stand up, slow exhale breathing for 3 minutes).

3️⃣ Ask: “What is fact, and what is my interpretation?”

4️⃣ Then respond - briefly.

Irritability is a signal.

Not that you’re failing.

But that you’re carrying too much, too long, without clearing it.

If this is happening often, it’s not a communication issue.

It’s an internal capacity issue.

And that’s fixable.

If you want to build that capacity, not just manage optics, we should talk.

“I used to love my job.
I had ideas. I had energy. I had enthusiasm… not anymore.”

This is what a prospective client said to me on a discovery call yesterday.

And honestly, I hear this more often than I would like to believe.

Burnout rarely arrives dramatically.

It doesn’t announce itself with a loud crash.

It happens quietly.

In subtle ways.

First, the excitement fades.
Then the energy dips.
Then the work that once felt meaningful starts feeling heavy.

Psychologists have studied this for years.

Burnout doesn’t happen overnight.
It often unfolds in stages.

Here are 12 stages researchers have identified.

Pause and see if you recognise any of them:

→ 1. Compulsion to prove yourself – working harder to show your worth.

→ 2. Working harder and harder – effort becomes constant.

→ 3. Neglecting your own needs – sleep, health, rest take a back seat.

→ 4. Displacement of conflict – ignoring the signs something is wrong.

→ 5. Revision of values – work becomes the only priority.

→ 6. Denial of emerging problems – irritation, cynicism, impatience.

→ 7. Withdrawal – pulling away from people and activities.

→ 8. Behavioural changes – noticeable personality shifts.

→ 9. Depersonalisation – feeling disconnected from yourself.

→ 10. Inner emptiness – a sense of meaninglessness.

→ 11. Depression – exhaustion, hopelessness, numbness.

→ 12. Burnout – physical, emotional, and mental collapse

The difficult part is this:

Most leaders don’t notice these stages while they are happening.

They simply keep pushing.

Because high performers are trained to do exactly that.

Push harder.
Do more.
Hold everything together.

But burnout is not just a productivity problem.

It is a capacity problem.

And the earlier you recognise the signs, the easier it is to change course.

There is another important piece people rarely talk about.

Recovery from burnout is not a purely mechanical or clinical process.

It’s not just about taking a few days off or fixing your calendar.

Often, burnout is a signal that you have lost connection with yourself.

Mindfulness offers a beautiful and deeply therapeutic path back.

A process that helps you slow down, reconnect with your inner world, and gradually restore clarity, energy, and meaning.

In many ways, the real healing begins when you meet yourself again.

And from that place, you don’t just recover.

You step into a wiser, steadier, and more aligned version of your life.

So pause for a moment.

Look at the list again.

Where are you right now?

And what would it take to take care of yourself before the body and mind force you to?

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Have you noticed how the most triggered person in the room often thinks they are the most powerful?

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You’ve seen this.

Deadlines pile up.
A stakeholder pushes back.
A team member drops the ball.

→ Voices rise.
→ Emails get sharper.
→ Meetings become emotional battlegrounds.

And somewhere in the middle of it, you tell yourself:

“I need to respond.”
“I can’t let this slide.”
“I have to show strength.”

But here’s what no one says out loud.

Most reactions are not strength.
They are unmanaged emotion dressed up as leadership.

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I’ve worked with leaders who are brilliant. Sharp. Strategic. Capable.

But under pressure?

→ They interrupt more.
→ They defend faster.
→ They over-explain.
→ They over-control.

Not because they lack intelligence.

Because their nervous system is in survival mode.

And when that happens, even smart leaders shrink.

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A Director I worked with used to react immediately in tense meetings.

His team complied, but they stopped contributing. Innovation dropped. Trust eroded quietly.

When he learned to master calm, he built trust and influence with ease…..with half the effort. 

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Here’s the uncomfortable truth:

If you cannot stay calm when challenged,
you will always be managed by the room instead of leading it.

When chaos hits and you escalate, you lose authority.

When chaos hits and you stabilise, you gain it.

Calm is not personality.
It is trained capacity.

And in today’s noisy, reactive world, that capacity is rare.

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My perspective?

In a world of chaos, calm is the loudest flex. 

It is regulation.

→ Not suppressing emotion.
→ Not pretending to be zen.

But having the internal strength to feel the heat, without becoming the fire.

That’s mastery.

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If you find yourself more irritable lately…
more reactive…more tired of managing emotions, yours and everyone else’s. 

It may not be a productivity issue.

It may be an inner regulation issue.

That’s exactly the work we do inside InnerEdge - helping leaders navigate pressure and transitions with calm clarity instead of controlled chaos.

If this resonates, let’s talk.

Because real power is quiet.

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You don’t need another mindset ritual.
You need to think clearly again.

Let me guess.

You’re in the middle of a transition.

→ New role.
→ New expectations.
→ Board pressure.
→ Team resistance.
→ Or something personal that no one at work knows about.

On the outside, you are functioning.

On the inside, you are carrying noise.

And the real problem isn’t workload.

It’s this:

You can’t hear your own thinking anymore.

Every decision feels heavy.

Every conversation feels loaded.

You’re second-guessing yourself more than usual.

You’re reacting faster than you’d like.

You don’t need motivation.

You need calm clarity.

Fact is, 

Transitions don’t break careers.

Confused decision-making during transitions does.

When your internal state is unsettled, you either:

→ Overcompensate and control
→ Withdraw and delay decisions
→ Or push harder to prove stability

None of these build long-term authority.

What actually works?

1️⃣ Regulating your nervous system before regulating your team.

2️⃣ Separating facts from emotional noise.

3️⃣ Redefining success for this season, not the last one.

4️⃣ Creating strategic distance from people who cloud your judgment.

5️⃣ Making fewer but cleaner decisions.

This is exactly what we do inside InnerEdge.

Not theory.
Not motivation.

Structured recalibration.

Because when a leader regains internal clarity:

→ Teams settle.
→ Communication sharpens.
→ Decisions simplify.
→ Energy returns.

If you are navigating a tough professional or personal transition right now, and you are tired of “handling it alone” - this is your invitation.

Comment “InnerEdge” or send me a direct message.

Calm clarity is not a personality trait.

It’s built.

My dad has been studying spirituality for over four decades.
Here are 3 lessons he insists I always remember. 


My dad is a avid reader, student of theology and Vipassana practitioner for over 4 decades now. 

He is my first guru who initiated me into spirituality, and he did that through literature, neuroscience, history and his life experiences. 

Here are three lessons he keeps reminding me of.

Simple.
Timeless.
And surprisingly practical for life and leadership.

1. Beginner’s Mind

He often says, “To a beginner’s mind, there are infinite possibilities.”

The moment you think you already know everything, growth stops.

Curiosity keeps the mind alive.
Humility keeps learning possible.

Stay open. Stay curious.

2. This too shall pass

When things go wrong, we tend to believe the moment will last forever.

But life has seasons.

Challenges pass.
So do successes.

This simple reminder helps you stay steady, in both storms and celebrations.

3. Protect your energy

This one he repeats the most.

Live a life that keeps you aligned.

Be mindful of who and what you allow into your space.

Not everyone deserves access to your time, your attention, or your energy.

Because the quality of your life is deeply influenced by the people and environments you surround yourself with.

Three simple reminders.

Yet the older I get, the more I realise how profound they are.

Sometimes wisdom isn’t complicated.

It’s remembering the simple truths, and living by them.

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If you want to stop the negative patterns and get positive results, don’t do this. 


Most people believe change requires;

More discipline.
More determination.
More positive thinking.
More patience.

So they push harder.

And when they slip back into the same patterns, they blame themselves.

Here’s what I’ve learned after years of working with high-functioning professionals:

Self-sabotage is rarely a willpower problem.

It’s unprocessed pain.

Old disappointments.
Old rejections.
Old failures.
Old emotional wounds.

Your mind is intelligent.

It reorganises itself around that pain so you don’t have to feel it again.

It creates behaviours 
overworking
overpleasing
procrastinating
withdrawing 
……as protection.

Not because you are weak.

Because you are wired for survival.

So forcing through it doesn’t work.

Positive affirmations over it don’t work.

Outperforming it doesn’t work.

What actually works?

Awareness

To pause.
To observe your thought patterns.
To witness the pain without dramatising it.
To become aware of its nature, and gently release it.

This is not motivational work.

It is spiritual work.

Ancient traditions understood this long before modern psychology did.

For the past 9 years, as part of my Arhatic Yoga and energy psychology studies, I’ve practiced and taught processes designed thousands of years ago, specifically to clear emotional blocks and repetitive patterns.

And here’s what surprises most clients:

Positive transformation is not as hard as they imagined.

Recently, a client told me:

“I thought I had to fight my way to peace. You showed me it could be gentle.”

That’s the point.

Transformation does not require violence toward yourself.

It requires awareness.
Release.
Grace.

The practices are ancient for a reason.

They work.

Why reinvent the wheel?

If you’re tired of fighting your patterns and ready to dissolve them instead, we should talk.

You don’t need more force.

You need freedom.

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This is what a calm life looks like to me.



Quiet mornings

Long walks.

Deep meditation.

A gentle smile.

A light heart.

A focused mind.

Meaningful work.

Joyful relationships.

Simple, nourishing meals.

No rush. Just being.

A sense of safety and stability.

Trust in myself, in life, and in people.

And the quiet joy of contributing to the world.

Not every day looks like this.

But the intention is to build a life that moves in this direction.

Because calm isn’t something that magically appears one day.

It’s something you design, protect, and practice.

I’m curious.

What does a calm life looks like to you?

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A must-have communication skill for leaders who want real influence and impact:

Some of you know about my leadership communication and executive presence program, Speak with Impact.

One topic I am having these days, again and again is this:

The Art of Storytelling in Leadership

Data informs.
Stories transform.

But let’s be clear.

This is not about starting meetings with childhood memories or dramatic monologues.

It’s about strategic storytelling.

Here are 5 high-leverage ways leaders can use it:

1. Start with tension, not information.
Don’t begin with, “Let me walk you through the update.”

Start with what’s at stake.

“We are losing 12% productivity because of this gap.”

Now people are listening.

Every powerful story begins with a problem that matters.

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2. Make the listener the hero, not yourself.
Many leaders narrate stories to prove competence.

That kills influence.

Instead of, “When I led this project…”
Try, “Here’s what this means for you and your team.”

The best stories give ownership to the audience.

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3. Use specifics, not adjectives.
Saying “It was challenging” is vague.

Saying “We had 48 hours, no budget, and a team across three time zones” creates credibility.

Details create trust.
Vagueness creates doubt.

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4. Close the loop with a decision.
A story without a takeaway is entertainment.

After sharing context, always land it:

“So here’s the decision we’re making.”
“So this is the standard moving forward.”
“So this is what I need from you.”

Leadership storytelling must end in clarity.

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5. Regulate your nervous system before you speak.
This is the part most ignore.

If you are anxious, defensive, or triggered, your story will leak that energy.

Before important conversations:
Pause.
Breathe.
Stabilise.

Calm presence makes the story land.

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Influence is less about speaking more.
It is more of structuring meaning.

When leaders master storytelling, three things happen:

→ Resistance drops.
→ Alignment increases.
→ Trust deepens.

If you want to communicate in a way that people remember, respect, and act on, that’s the work we do inside Speak with Impact.

Because leadership is not just about being heard.

It is ‘being followed’.

If you are a leader looking to improve your leadership communication and executive presence and create the right kind of influence and impact, DM me and let’s talk.

Do you feel like no matter how much you achieve… something in life is always falling behind?

Career is growing.
But health is slipping.

Work is thriving.
But relationships feel distant.

You are doing well…
But not whole.

There’s a concept called the Four Burner Theory.

Imagine your life has four burners:

Career
Health
Family
Friends

The idea is simple.

You cannot keep all four on high at the same time.

So most high performers do what they’ve been taught.

They turn one off.

Usually quietly.

Health becomes “later.”
Friends become “someday.”
Family becomes “once things settle.”

And career?

That one stays on full flame.

From the outside, it looks like success.

From the inside, it often feels like a slow trade-off.

I’ve seen this closely with leaders I work with.

Not because they don’t care.

But because they were never taught how to hold success and life together.

So they compensate.

They overwork.
They overcommit.
They over-function.

And somewhere along the way, life starts feeling… heavy.

Here’s a different way to look at it.

What if the goal is not to keep all burners on high.

What if the goal is to learn how to adjust the flame consciously.

To know what matters in this season of life.

And more importantly…

To not lose yourself while building everything else.

Because success that costs you your health, your relationships, or your peace…

Isn’t success.

It’s an expensive trade.

If this feels close to home, it may be time to step back and look at your life more intentionally.

That’s exactly the kind of work we do inside InnerEdge™, helping leaders navigate success without losing themselves in the process.

If you’re at that point, you’re welcome to reach out.

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Do you feel lately that life has become chaotic?


Not dramatically falling apart.

Just… messy.

Too many moving parts.
Too many decisions waiting.
Too many things demanding your attention at the same time.

Your work is demanding.
Your responsibilities have grown.
People depend on you.

And yet, somewhere in between all of that, something feels off.

You wake up with a long list of things to do,
but you’re not entirely sure which direction you’re moving in.

You’re functioning.

But not flowing.

I see this often with leaders I work with.

From the outside, their life looks organised.

But internally, their mind is crowded.

Too many expectations.
Too many voices.
Too many definitions of what success should look like.

Over time, this creates a quiet confusion.

You start second-guessing decisions.
Small things drain more energy than they should.
Even good opportunities feel heavy.

This is not because you lack capability.

It’s because clarity is missing.

And clarity doesn’t come from pushing harder.

It comes from pausing long enough to see clearly.

When the mind is calm, patterns become obvious.

What matters.
What doesn’t.
What needs your attention now.

Without clarity, everything feels urgent.

With clarity, direction returns.

That’s why the work I do with leaders inside InnerEdge™ often begins with one simple intention:

Clearing the noise.

Because once the noise settles,
the next step usually becomes obvious.

And life stops feeling like a mess again.

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Here’s some bad business advice.



Last year, I started with an ambitious goal for my business.

A few good friends  - on a similar mission - encouraged me.

And I followed a blueprint laid out by a very successful business coach.

His advice was simple:

Follow this process to the T and you’ll get results.

↳ Viral posts
↳ DM outreach
↳ A well-oiled sales funnel

It’s a great plan.

But only if you align with the ideology behind it.

I pushed through it.

I told myself:
Do what it takes.

Did I get the results? 
Some

Did I follow the plan to the T?
No

Truth is, my heart wasn’t in it.

It wasn’t me.

Everything felt harder than it needed to be.

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This year, as I set my goals, I looked at them through a different lens.

Some of you may remember my post about Kurashi, designing life intentionally.

When I applied that thinking to my business, something became obvious.

This model didn’t align.

So I did something that felt risky in the online business world.

I simplified.

No complicated funnel.

No TOF–MOF–BOF gymnastics.
No lead magnets.
No endless discovery calls.

Just this:

If you want to work with me,
here is the consultation link.

That’s it.

Simple.
Direct.
Honest.

Yes, the work is still non-negotiable.

But how I do the work matters.

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And something interesting happened.

In the past three months,
I’ve already achieved half of my yearly goal.

Was it beginner’s luck?

Or simply alignment?

Time will tell.

But one thing is clear.

It feels lighter.
It feels joyful.
And most importantly, it feels like me.

From years of entrepreneurship, I have learnt, there are more than two ways to succeed. 

Sometimes the best business strategy is not scaling harder.

It’s building a business that matches your nature.

Are you pushing hard and yet life is still not working out - you are not seeing the results? 


Most of us were taught, 

Push harder.
Assert your will.
Make it happen.
Control the outcome.

Success, we were told, belongs to the relentless.

For three decades of my adult life, building, striving, competing, I believed that.

But when I look back honestly, I see a clear pattern.

The phases where I pushed the hardest
were the most stressful.

The most anxious.

The most tightly controlled.

And they produced… average results.

But the seasons where I trusted the process, gave my best without obsessing over outcomes, and refused to let society’s definition of success overpower my inner compass. 

Those were the seasons of breakthroughs.

And sometimes, miracles.

Many years ago, I read this Rumi’s quote:

“When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it.”

That shifted something in me.

Because I had lived both realities.

When I let go of excessive control…
When I softened my grip…
When I trusted life as much as I trusted my effort…

Things aligned in ways I could not have engineered.

This is not about being passive or laziness. 

It’s about aligned action.

Give your best.
Show up fully.
Do the work.

But don’t suffocate the outcome.

So let me ask you:

Where in your life are you forcing results?

Where are you gripping so tightly that there’s no room for grace?

What would happen if you softened, just a little?

You may have a plan for your life.

It is also true that life has a plan for you.

I believe each one of us is born with a purpose.

Sometimes the next level isn’t unlocked by more pressure.

It’s unlocked by surrender & presence.

If you are going through a tough transition in life and want my support as a coach to navigate this season of life with ease and grace, do write to me. I would love to work with you.

Truely grateful, or just saying the word?

Let’s not romanticise gratitude.
Let’s understand it.

Over the years, working with high performers and leaders, I’ve noticed something fascinating.

The people who created results beyond their imagination - beyond logic, had one common thread:

A deep sense of gratitude.

Not as courtesy.
Not as politeness.
Not as a LinkedIn caption.

Real gratitude.

And yet, today the words “thank you” and “I’m grateful” roll off the tongue easily.

I’ve seen people say all the right things…
and within minutes criticise, complain, or undermine others.

I’ve been there myself not too long ago.

That’s not gratitude.
That’s performance.

Gratitude is not a script to make you look evolved.

It is not a mood booster for five seconds.

Gratitude is a thought + a feeling.
It is an emotion.

Most people touch it briefly, and move on.

What makes it powerful is the ability to hold that emotion long enough for it to change you.

When it’s real:

It has weight.
It has humility.
It changes your behaviour.

Here’s what transformed my being, and my results:

1️⃣ Don’t say you’re grateful if you’re not.
Restraint is powerful. Words carry energy.

2️⃣ If something genuinely touches your life - say it, mean it, and act on it.

Let your behaviour prove your gratitude.

Because gratitude without action is just sentiment.

Gratitude lived consistently becomes a vortex of creation.

When you operate from it:

Opportunities expand.
Relationships deepen.
Clarity sharpens.

Having worked with over a thousand professionals, I can tell you this, the ones who rise beyond their own expectations are not necessarily the smartest or the most strategic.

They are the ones who live in genuine gratitude.

If there is one virtue that can elevate both your inner world and your outer results, it is this.

Not hustle.
Not strategy.

GRATITUDE.

But only if you mean it.

If you’re in a transition right now, read this.


The new role isn’t fully yours yet.

The old identity doesn’t fit anymore.

Your confidence feels… inconsistent.

On paper, nothing is “wrong.”

Inside, everything feels uncertain.

This is the most dangerous phase for a leader.

Not crisis.
Not failure.

Transition.

Because in transition, you’re tempted to:

→ Overwork to prove stability
→ Say yes to everything
→ Avoid difficult conversations
→ Rush decisions just to feel control

And those moves quietly cost you authority.

Here’s what I’ve seen after working with high-performing leaders for years:

Transitions don’t damage careers.

Unregulated transitions do.

The leaders who come out stronger don’t push harder.

They do three things differently:

1️⃣ They focus on inner stability before making big moves.

2️⃣ They redefine success for the new season, not the old one.

3️⃣ They build clarity intentionally instead of waiting for it to arrive.

If you are navigating:

→ A promotion
→ A leadership shift
→ A business pivot
→ A divorce or personal upheaval
→ An identity reset in your 40s

Handling it alone is costing you more than you think.

InnerEdge is built for this exact season.

Not to give you tactics.

To help you think clearly again.
Stand steady again.
Lead without losing yourself.

If this is your phase, comment “Transition” or send me a message.

This isn’t where you collapse.

It’s where you recalibrate properly.

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Something interesting I’ve noticed about high performers.

They know how to push hard.

But many of them don’t know how to relax.

The mind keeps running even on weekends.

Thinking about work.
Planning the next week.
Replaying conversations.

But clarity rarely appears in a crowded mind.

It appears when the mind becomes quiet.

Sometimes the most strategic thing you can do…is nothing.

Have a great weekend!

Are you using ChatGPT as your coach or therapist?

Many professionals are.

And honestly, I understand why.

↳ It’s available 24/7.
↳ It doesn’t judge you.
↳ It helps organise your thoughts.
↳ And sometimes, it even asks surprisingly good questions.

I use ChatGPT myself, often.

↳ For thinking.
↳ For writing.
↳ For testing ideas.

But after experimenting with it for coaching-style conversations, I’ve noticed something important.

It’s helpful.

But it has limits.

Here are the pros and cons.

The Pros

→ Instant reflection
Sometimes you just need to get your thoughts out of your head. AI can help structure your thinking quickly.

→ Privacy
You can explore questions without worrying about judgement.

→ Clarity through writing
When you articulate a problem clearly, half the solution becomes visible.

→ Speed
You can get ideas, frameworks, and perspectives instantly.

For quick reflection, it’s a powerful tool.

But here’s where the limitations begin.

The Cons

→ Echo chambers
AI often reflects the logic in your question. If your thinking has blind spots, the response may reinforce them.

→ Confirmation bias
You can unknowingly guide the conversation toward the answer you want.

→ No real challenge
A good coach interrupts your thinking patterns. They question assumptions and point out contradictions.

→ No human awareness
A human coach notices tone, hesitation, emotional shifts, and what you’re not saying. AI cannot sense those layers.

And those layers often hold the real breakthrough.

So here’s how I see it.

AI is a powerful thinking tool.

But deep transformation still requires human awareness, presence, and conversation.

Use AI to organise your thoughts.

If you are navigating a complex decision, a transition, or simply feel stuck in your thinking, sometimes a real conversation helps bring the clarity that reflection alone cannot.

That’s the work I do with leaders inside InnerEdge™.

If this resonates, you’re welcome to reach out and explore whether it’s the right space for you.

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Do your mornings start with anxiety? 


Not dramatic panic.

Just… that familiar heaviness.

The alarm rings.
You open your eyes.

And before you even get out of bed, the mind is already running.

The meeting later today.
That email you still haven’t responded to.
The conversation you wish had gone differently yesterday.

Your body is still lying in bed.
But your mind is already in the office.

I was speaking to a leader recently who said something that stayed with me.

He said,

“Mallika, mornings used to feel fresh. Now they feel like the day has already started chasing me.”

If you relate to that, you’re not alone.

According to research from the American Psychological Association, most professionals report their highest stress levels within the first hour of waking up.

Not at the end of the day.

At the beginning.

Because the mind wakes up carrying yesterday’s unfinished thoughts…
and tomorrow’s imagined problems.

It’s like opening your eyes into a room where ten conversations are already happening.

No wonder mornings feel anxious.

What’s interesting is this:

Many high performers assume this is normal.

Part of success.
Part of responsibility.
Part of adulthood.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

A calm mind is not something reserved for monks in the mountains.

It’s a trainable skill.

And when the mind learns to settle, mornings begin to feel very different.

Quieter.
Clearer.
More spacious.

If anxious mornings have become familiar for you, you may find meditation surprisingly helpful.

I teach professionals Vedic Meditation that takes 20 mins to practice and sets you for the day. It helps the mind settle deeply and naturally.

If you’re curious, feel free to write to me.

If you are struggling with chronic stress or anxiety, here is a technique to help you reduce it and it is surprisingly simple. 

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