I help high achievers break corporate dependence and build beautiful Portfolio Careers for freedom, family and finances.

I help high achieving professionals BREAK corporate dependence and build Self-Directed Lives.
I believe that to transform our circumstances, we have to BREAK what's not working, on purpose. And do it smartly.

My Career Design Lab is where your golden handcuffs and unfulfilling career go to die, and where we reimagine work aligned with who you want to be, who you want to serve and what legacy you want to leave.

Like you:
I know what it's like to be burned out, unfulfilled and secretly DYING for new opportunities. 
I know what it's like to seek my identity and self worth from a job only to realize the mirage.
I know what it's like to sacrifice my health and family for "achievement."

The difference is I did something about it.

In 2018, work wasn't working for me, so I broke it and methodically designed a new life with intention.
I used my job as an investor in my future. I figured out my advantages and then built a side business that I took to full time corporate exit, then scaled to over $1m in revenue.

I built an entire process to help me figure out my re-invented career and now I use that to help other corporate pros smartly build futures that are Self-Directed, intentional and successful - that is my purpose.

Previous, my career spanned:

Financial Futures and Derivatives Trading
3 Startups
Freelance Consulting
Corporate Innovation

I infuse major lessons from these unique experiences to help you craft a dynamic, portfolio career that is adaptable, intentional, purpose driven and never dependent on the whims of corporate structures.

Michael Gardon

I work with people who have reached the limit of self-override.

They’re functional, capable, and outwardly “fine,” but living at a cost their body can no longer absorb. They’ve spent years pushing through, muting instinct, and adapting themselves to lives, work, and relationships that don’t actually fit. Eventually, the system refuses to keep going that way.

That refusal is not a problem.
It’s an initiation point.

My work begins there.

This is not therapeutic maintenance or personal optimization. It’s initiation-level work that restores access to the body’s intelligence, instinct, and internal authority. As interference clears, sensation returns. The nervous system exits chronic defense. Breath deepens. Choice becomes clean again.

Once people are back in contact with themselves - in how they move, speak, rest, and decide - it becomes very difficult to continue living in ways that require self-betrayal. There is an irreversibility to this work. Not because of belief, but because the body remembers what alignment feels like.

I work by removing what interferes:
internal distortion, inherited scripts, and the inner occupation that teaches people to mistrust their perception and govern themselves from pressure instead of truth.

As that interference dissolves, felt life returns.

People become at home in their own skin. Their yes and no sharpen. Their voice carries. Energy reorganizes. Presence becomes palpable. Radiance and magnetism emerge naturally as coherence. Creativity and desire regain direction instead of leaking through anxiety or collapse.

This work is subtractive and activating at the same time.

People don’t become someone new.
They recover access to themselves - as living systems.

From that place, responsibility arises organically. People relate, create, and lead without sacrificing their aliveness. Their work becomes more honest. Their relationships more direct. Their presence more grounded and consequential. The body remembers how to belong to the living world again - steady, cyclical, responsive, capable of growth.

This is not self-improvement.
It’s not healing for comfort.

It’s embodied self-direction.
The capacity to live from internal authority rather than inherited conditioning.

My work is for people who are no longer willing to waste their vitality.

I offer 1:1 mentorship and small group experiences for those standing at this threshold.
Ready to return fully to themselves and let that reshape how they live, relate, and contribute.

Once you cross it, there’s no going back.

That’s the point.

Kristiana Milliken

You are experiencing reality based on your nervous system state.

A body in chronic stress reads the world as urgent and unsafe.
A regulated body experiences the same world with freedom and possibility.

Two people can stand in the same environment and live entirely different realities—not from mindset, but (physical) state.

When the body feels safe, perception widens.
What once felt threatening becomes workable. 



Change the state of the body, and the world you’re living in changes with it.

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Hi, I’m Kristiana. 

I believe in radical self-responsibility as self-liberation.
When we take responsibility for our inner state, nervous systems, and how we move through the world, life becomes more coherent.

Personal liberation isn’t separate from collective change.

It’s how it begins.

Kristiana Milliken 

(R)evolutionary mentorship for self-led, internally governed humans — grounded in the body | Building regenerative alternatives | Land steward | Animal rescue & welfare | Seeker of gnosis + adventure

Not worn out, well traveled.


This Hydro Flask has lived a full life alongside me — and she’s not done yet.


Hydro Flask - sponsor your girl. she's been loyal. 🥰

spiritual awakening, phase one: existential collapse.

Phase two: realizing enlightenment still has rent.

Phase three: learning how to live, work, and participate without abandoning your soul.

Reality persists. How are you shaping it?

If we want harmful systems to change, we have to look honestly at how we participate in them.

And yes - most of us have been conditioned into these systems since birth. Convenience culture, consumerism, disconnection, urgency. None of that is accidental.

But awareness creates responsibility.
We still have agency in how we participate.

Every day we vote with our:

time
silence
money
attention
convenience
energetic output


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It's easy to point at governments, big corps, and "the system" but it's harder, and more powerful, to ask:

Where am I funding what I say I'm against?
Where am I choosing convenience over alignment?
Where am I outsourcing responsibility?

How could I contribute differently with the resources I already have?
Who or what could I support that aligns more with the world I want to live in?

Where do I actually have power that I'm not using?

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Real change starts when people take responsibility for THEMSELVES FIRST.

Be the change you want to see is the economic reality.

Put your resources into:

each other
grassroots efforts
small and local business
independent creators and journalists (hi 🫡)
marginalized groups doing real work
community initiatives 
ethical producers
mutual aid

The system actually shifts when enough people shift their behavior.

(Which also means doing the inner work. Regulating your nervous system. Taking responsibility for your healing. Because people who feel grounded and empowered participate in the world very differently than people who feel overwhelmed or powerless.)

Complaining alone will never, ever redistribute power.
Choices do.

And none of us do this perfectly.
But conscious participation is where transformation begins.

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This is deeply connected to the work I’m building right now - helping people reconnect to themselves so they can live and participate in the world more consciously. If you feel drawn to that, I’m glad you’re here.

Some of the 🐾 angels that I have crossed paths with here on the island. 

The work never ends and lately I have had to pull back from community work due to funds ($$ is tight right now, and these efforts are primarily self-funded!)

If you'd like to support part of my soul mission, info in comments!

Some people are rich in numbers and bankrupt in presence. 🤷🏼‍♀️


wbu?

There’s a reason the crooked tree survives. What doesn’t conform often avoids being harvested.

What can’t be easily categorized or extracted from is usually left alone.

The straight tree becomes lumber.
The crooked one lives its own life.

Not fitting the mold is protection. Protection of your energy and life force. Your freedom.

There is power in being unassimilable.

Part of sovereignty looks like refusing to be shaped into something convenient for others.

Live differently to remain intact.

I’m starting my Substack again. For a while I wasn’t sure where long-form writing fit into my work anymore. But there are conversations I want to have that require more space to breathe. 

We are living through a period of rapid change.

What it means to be human is being renegotiated in real time.

And I find myself wanting to explore that more deeply and openly - from curiosity and grounded awareness.

So Substack will be a space where I share longer reflections on:

what it means to be human in a changing reality
nervous system regulation and resilience
power, economics, and adaptation
connection and human-to-human communities
practical ways to stay grounded while the world shifts

If you’re someone who thinks about these things too, or feels the changes happening and wants language for them, welcome.

I just published the first piece back.

Open article: An Open Letter: On AI and Preparing for a Rapidly Changing Reality by lettersfromthewitness.substack.com

An Open Letter: On AI and Preparing for a Rapidly Changing Reality

I just want to give major props to people who keep their house clean 24/7. Especially if:

you have kids
you have animals
you live with a man
you live in the bush

I am not you, but I respect and admire you.

I now understand why robots and throuples are gaining traction.

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