There are two ways for Insurance Companies, Banks, Private Equity firms, MGAs, and insurtechs to approach complex risk in 2025:

1. Rely on generic solutions, potentially overlooking critical gaps.
2. Partner with specialized expertise that delivers clarity and tailored protection.

Many sit in the first category, often underserved by mega-brokers.

Your institution has unique strengths and ambitions. 

But is your risk management truly aligned? 

Or are you unknowingly exposed due to:

–  Coverage gaps hidden in the fine print?

–  Lack of access to sophisticated global markets?

–  Decisions made without credible peer data or advanced analytics?

–  Impersonal service that doesn’t grasp your specific operational realities?

The bigger problem?

You're leaving strategic advantage on the table and potentially facing significant financial or reputational risk down the line.

The solution?

Transform your risk management from a necessary cost center into a strategic asset through a bespoke, expert-driven partnership.

That’s my focus at LION Specialty.

My approach combines:

– Penetrating technical analysis honed by deep experience (including handling complex Fortune 100 accounts) to uncover what others miss.

– Global market access (London, Bermuda) and perspective, crafting solutions beyond standard domestic offerings.

– Process mastery & advanced analytics delivering clarity and confidence, not complexity.

– Authentic human connection, building partnerships that thrive.

(informed partly by my wellness background as a Pilates instructor… sustainable success requires balance)

–  Are you serious about closing critical coverage gaps?

–  Are you ready for risk management bespoke to your institution's needs?

–  Is it time for a partner who brings both sophisticated expertise and a refreshingly collaborative approach?

Let's connect and explore how we can elevate your strategy together.

Natasha Kiemnec

The SEC doesn't always send a lawsuit.
Sometimes they just ask for a "voluntary" interview.


That "voluntary" interview cost my client $250,000 in legal fees.

They received a request for documents. Not a subpoena. Not a Wells Notice. Just a request.

They hired top-tier counsel to respond (as they should).

They sent the bill to their insurer.

The Denial:
"This is not a Claim. A Claim is defined as a written demand for monetary or non-monetary relief. This is just a request for information."

Technically, the carrier was right.
The standard policy was silent on "inquiries."
The client paid the $250k out of pocket.

The Architect Solution:
We don't use standard definitions.
We expanded the definition of "Claim" to include "Pre-Claim Inquiries."

Now, when the regulators "just have a few questions," the policy responds.
It pays for the lawyers to answer those questions correctly—before they turn into a lawsuit.

If you wait for the subpoena, you’ve waited too long.
Your coverage needs to start when the risk starts.

Does your policy cover "Pre-Claim Inquiries" or just "Claims"?

One definition is worth $250k.

DM me "INQUIRY" and I'll check your language.

P.S. Ever been to Mexico City? One of the coolest spots I’ve frequented the last few years! It’s a vibe.

Natasha I.  Kiemnec, ARM

Managing Partner & Co-founder of LION Specialty | Global Financial Institutions & Private Equity Broker | Classical Certified Pilates Instructor

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Your $5M policy is not actually $5M.


Unless you structured it correctly.

Most D&O policies are "eroding limits."
Every dollar spent on lawyers reduces the limit available for the settlement.

If you spend $2M defending a frivolous lawsuit...
You only have $3M left to pay the judgment.

The lawyers get paid first. You get paid last.

We structure defense costs outside the limit, in addition to, or specific sub limits outside the limit. 

This means the insurance company pays for the defense or other limits in addition to the policy limit.

Your $5M limit remains fully intact for settlements and judgments.

Why this matters:
In a complex securities claim, defense costs can easily hit $500k-$1M before you even get to a motion to dismiss.

If that money comes out of your limit, you are underinsured.

If it sits outside, you have a dedicated war chest for the fight.

Don't let your legal bills eat your protection.

Check your declarations page. Does it say "Defense Costs Included" or "Defense Costs in Addition"?

What other sublimits are included, if any?

If it says "Included," you have less coverage than you think.

DM me "LIMITS" and I'll review it for you.

I was 24 years old, the youngest person in the room by at least 15 years.

And I was terrified of asking the wrong question.

The client was one of Aon's marquee accounts. The meeting was high-stakes. Everyone around the table had decades more experience than me.

So I stayed quiet.

I nodded along. I took notes. I tried to look like I belonged there.

But halfway through the conversation, something wasn't adding up.

The numbers the client was describing didn't match the risk exposure we'd outlined in the proposal. It seemed like a pretty basic disconnect, but no one was addressing it.

I figured I must be missing something obvious. These senior leaders would've caught it if it mattered, right?

But the gap kept nagging at me.

So I took a breath and asked what felt like the most obvious question in the world:

"Can we walk through how you're calculating exposure? Because I'm seeing a difference between what you're describing and what we've modeled."

The room went quiet.

Then the client looked at his CFO and said, "That's a good question. Can we?"

Turns out, they'd been using an outdated methodology. And no one on their team had flagged it because they all assumed someone else understood it.

My "obvious" question uncovered a $2M gap in their coverage.

That moment taught me something I still carry today:

Technical excellence doesn't come from pretending to know everything.

It comes from being curious enough to ask the questions everyone else is afraid to raise.

Now, when I'm mentoring the next generation of actuaries at LION, I tell them this:

The questions you're embarrassed to ask? Those are usually the ones the room needs to hear.

Because the most dangerous assumption in any technical field is that someone else has already figured it out.

Your lack of experience isn't a weakness. It's permission to question the status quo without ego getting in the way.

So ask the obvious questions. Challenge the assumptions. Speak up when the numbers don't add up.

That's how you build real expertise—not by faking confidence, but by staying relentlessly curious.

What's one question you've been afraid to ask in your work that might actually be worth raising?

The easiest way for a carrier to deny a $10M claim is not a coverage exclusion.


It is a calendar error.

"Late Notice" is the silent killer of D&O claims.
Most policies require you to notify the carrier "as soon as practicable" or within a specific window (30-60 days).

But what counts as a claim?
Is it a lawsuit? A demand letter? A verbal threat?

If your General Counsel gets a letter on January 1st, handles it internally, and then notifies the broker on March 1st...
You might be denied. Entirely.
Not because the claim wasn't covered.
But because you missed the window.

The LION Process:

We don't leave "Notice" to chance.

1. The Definition Trigger
We negotiate the definition of "Claim" so it triggers only when a written demand is received by the Risk Manager or General Counsel—not just any employee. This prevents a mailroom mistake from voiding your coverage.

2. The Protocol
We build a "Notice Flowchart" for your legal team before the policy binds. Everyone knows exactly who to call and when.

3. The "Laundry List"
At the end of every policy period, we notice everything. Every potential circumstance. Every rumble of thunder. We lock in coverage under the expiring limits so you start fresh.

Process beats panic.

Don't let a clerical error cost you your limit.


Does your team know exactly what triggers a notice requirement?

DM me "NOTICE" and I'll send you our protocol checklist.

What makes someone great?


The book, Good to Great, would tell you it’s disciplined people making consistent, focused decisions over time. 

In light of the Olympics, Lindsey Vonn has said, you have to believe in yourself when no one else does. You can give up, give in, or give it all you’ve got. 

The themes are consistent
Discipline
Focus
Internal drive 

For me, these have always been where I found my success. 

The competition with myself to be the best. 

It’s amazing what you find in the hours of pushing yourself. 

In a marathon
Hours of studying
Early mornings at the gym 
Late nights at the office 

If you’ve been there, you know what I’m talking about…

The one other thing I’ve unexpectedly found to bring that same drive in life, is love. 

In light of Valentine’s Day, a shout out to my fiancé taking his third bar exam coming up in a week. 

Not because he didn’t pass the first two but because he’s going to be barred in the whole country soon (except Louisiana - haha don’t worry I don’t want to move there next)

The drive, effort, dedication, commitment that he puts into his work makes me want to find the next level within…

So I’d add admiration and love for someone to that list of reasons to find a third or fourth gear in yourself. 

While it was yesterday, I thought I needed something more than insurance humor in celebration of the day. Happy Valentine’s!

So incredibly proud of you David Gutierrez ❤️

What’s your take on what makes people great?

Eighteen years in insurance taught me what no training manual covers.


Here are the unspoken rules that matter most:

1. Relationships outlast resumes.
The best placements don't come from knowing the product. They come from knowing the underwriter who can make an exception. Build the relationship before you need the favor.

2. Saying "No" is a skill.
Early in my career, I said yes to everything. I learned the hard way that overcommitment leads to mediocrity. Boundaries create the space for excellence.

3. Ask the "Junior" questions.
I was 24, manuscripting policies with General Counsels. I asked questions that probably annoyed them.
But asking when you don't understand builds expertise faster than pretending you do.

4. Own mistakes immediately.
Coverage errors happen. The brokers who survive own them fast. The ones who spiral try to hide them. (This one I learned early days from my parents.)

5. Physical discipline supports mental performance.
You cannot sustain high performance on declining physical capacity. Insurance rewards endurance. Train for it.

Nobody told me these rules at 22.
I learned them through trial, failure, and watching others burn out.

What has been the key to your most career success?

Ps. Also! Make the most of the travel, and make it fun.

Legally, a drone is an aircraft.
That one definition nearly created a multi-million dollar uninsured loss.


I was reviewing a policy for an insurance carrier client.

We reached the "Aircraft and Operational Machinery" exclusion.

The CFO stopped me.
"Wait. We use drones to inspect property claims. If this exclusion stands, are we covered?"

Technically? No.

If the policy excludes "aircraft," and the FAA defines a drone as an "aircraft," the carrier can deny the claim.

Most brokers would wave this off.

"It’s a standard exclusion. They know what you do. It’ll be fine."

I don't rely on "fine." I rely on the contract.

We added a carve-back:
"This exclusion does not apply to the use of unmanned aircraft for claims handling and loss assessment."

One sentence.

Total protection.

Standard forms are written for hypothetical companies.

Manuscript policies are written for your operations.

How many "standard" exclusions in your policy are silently blocking your actual business operations?

Book a review. We usually find the first gap in 15 minutes.

The insurance industry is approaching a 400,000-worker deficit.


CFOs, CUOs, and board members at regional insurers, reciprocals, and mutuals…

Here's the part most people get wrong: Gen Z isn't avoiding insurance careers. They don't know they exist.

In my 18 years in this industry, I've watched the narrative problem compound:

We're an industry that has exactly what younger generations want — meaningful work, people-first culture, good pay, career growth.

But we've done a poor job of telling that story.
Meanwhile, the talent we do have? We're burning them out. A CII study found 78% of employers have taken no steps to address secondary trauma in claims professionals.

We manage external risk all day. We should apply the same rigor to our own teams.

This week's Friday Five covers all of it — the talent gap, the burnout blind spot, and what leaders are doing differently (including 250 Pilates classes).

Comment "BRIEF" below if you're not on our distribution…

Stay covered!

P.S. If you're serious about building the next generation of insurance talent, it starts with telling your story. We've had great success being authentic on social media about who we are and what we stand for.

P.S.S. Getting out in nature, doing pilates, meditation helps with burnout. Can you guess where this is?

Innocent until proven guilty" is a legal right.
It is not an insurance right.


Most D&O policies contain a "Conduct Exclusion."
It states the insurer will not pay for claims arising from fraud or criminal acts.

That sounds reasonable. You shouldn't be insured for committing crimes.

The problem is the trigger.

In standard policies, the carrier can often stop paying defense costs as soon as there is a "fact in dispute" or a credible allegation of fraud.

If a plaintiff accuses you of fraud, the carrier can say:

"This looks like it falls under the exclusion. We are pausing defense payments."

You go bankrupt proving you didn't do it.

We change the trigger.

We demand "Final Adjudication" language.

This means the carrier must pay your defense costs all the way through trial and appeal.

They can only apply the exclusion if a judge or jury issues a final, non-appealable ruling that you actually committed the act.

We shift the burden of proof from you to the contract.

Check your policy for "Final Adjudication" wording.

If it's not there, you are exposed to the allegation alone.

This is just one of 10 tweaks we make to the conduct exclusion alone to ensure that you have defense cost coverage. 

DM me "CONDUCT" and I'll help you find them.

A single word just split a federal court ruling.


Most financial institutions treat their Crime Bond and their Cyber Policy as two separate safety nets.
But a recent ruling (Hartford vs. HSB) just proved why that is a dangerous assumption.

The Bond was dismissed. The Cyber policy survived.
The difference wasn't the loss itself. It was the definition of "Causation."

Here is the nuance that most programs miss:

1. The Bond: Often excludes losses where an employee is "tricked" into sending money (Social Engineering). It requires the computer itself to be the cause.

2. The Cyber Policy: Applies a more permissive "direct result" standard that holds up even when human error is involved.

If you are relying on a $250k Social Engineering sublimit to cover a seven-figure wire fraud loss, you are exposed.

I’ve spent years architecting programs for financial institutions, and I always look for this specific friction point.

You cannot map these coverages in silos. They have to work together.

We broke down the full legal framework in this week’s Boardroom Briefing.

Comment "BRIEF" and I'll send it over.

Early in my career, I said "Yes" to everything.
Every client call. Every project. Every "quick question."

I thought availability was a competitive advantage.

I was wrong.

Overcommitment is the enemy of excellence.
If you are always available, you are never deeply focused, creative, or unique.

I learned the hard way:

You cannot manuscript a complex policy while answering emails every 5 minutes.

You cannot negotiate a difficult claim while jumping on "quick syncs."

The Pivot:
The process was developed. 
Each day had a focus throughout the week. 
Each month prepared for the next. 
Always aligning with the client’s calendar 
150 days out from expiration. 
Sunday nights were for alignment of the week. 
Fridays for policy checking. 

It felt too structured but the focus helped my alignment,
the team,
The client. 

My clients stopped getting "fast answers."
They started getting better answers. 

Structure creates the space for 
deep work, 
unique, 
creative outcomes.

And deep work is the only competitive advantage that lasts.

What is one thing you need to “structure" this week to better align the team?

At the American Bankers Association Risk Management Conference in Orlando?

I’m on the Brightline Trains on my way up. 

Would love to meet up! Send me a note. 

(And yes, I changed my hair)

Kroll just surveyed 325 PE executives about cybersecurity.

The headline number: 80% experienced hold-period cyber disruption. Average financial hit per deal: $2.1 million.

But the number that stopped me...82% of PE firms have no dedicated cybersecurity leader managing portfolio risk.

Not "could improve their approach." 
No leader. 
Period!

When Flip and I review these reports for the Friday Five, we're looking for the data point that changes how our clients think about their next renewal. 

This week had three of them.

The $77.7 billion US data center construction surge creating entirely new risk classes for carriers. 

The PE cyber governance gap that predicts whether a firm absorbs a valuation hit at exit. 

And the plaintiffs' bar expanding its litigation analytics to 1,200 additional state courts.

Three forces. 

One common thread...the institutions slowest to adapt pay the most.

We broke all of it down in this week's Boardroom Brief.

Link in comments.

Comment "BRIEF" if you want it in your inbox every Friday.

If your insurance coverage doesn't work in a simulation, it won't work in a crisis.


We don't just place the coverage and file the binder.

We stress-test it.

Before the program binds, we run "Mock Claim" scenarios against the proposed language.

We simulate the specific nightmares that keep the C-Suite awake:

1. The Friday Night Hack

A ransomware event hits at 6 PM. Who do we call? Does the "Breach Response" definition actually trigger immediate counsel, or are we stuck waiting for carrier approval?

2. The Regulatory Subpoena

A short-seller report triggers a stock drop. The SEC calls. Does the policy cover the "Informal Investigation" costs, or does it only trigger after a formal Wells Notice?

3. The Nuclear Verdict

A jury awards $50M. Does the excess tower sit flush on top of the primary, or is there a gap in the attachment point that leaves you exposed?

We usually find the cracks during the simulation.
It is infinitely better to find them in a conference room than in a courtroom.

You stress-test your software.
You stress-test your financials.
Start stress-testing your risk transfer.

Ready to see if your program holds up?

DM me "STRESS TEST" and let's run a scenario.

Ps. This is how we react when we hear of another prospect’s program not working and they need a LION!

The single biggest leverage point…


Time

Most brokers start the renewal process 30 days before expiration.

They flood the market with submissions. They cross their fingers. They hope for appetite.
You get daily emails asking for "just one more thing" while trying to close your quarter.

We operate on a 150-day cycle.

Day 150: The Strategy
We map out exactly where we are headed. We identify the story we need to tell before we ever open a submission file.

Day 120: The Build
We construct the submission. We test every angle of the risk narrative.

Day 90: The Approach
The carriers see our first approach now. We are reading the market, not reacting to it.

Day 60: The Options
We have your options locked down.

Day 30: The Bind
Bindable terms in hand. No drama. No surprises.

One client saw their limits jump 25% at flat premium simply because we had the runway to position them properly.

You negotiate effectively when you control the clock.

If your renewal is July 1st, we should be starting right now.

DM me "TIMELINE" and I'll share our 150-day execution roadmap.

I’m exceptional at bar games. 


Corn hole / bags

Shuffleboard 

Darts 

Ping pong etc. 

And if you’re a guy reading this you’re probably like most other guys who think…

Ya I’m sure she is for a girl. 

Well I’d probably beat you too 😂

I’m rarely this confident about my ability but repetition lends itself to credibility. 

It’s not that people underestimate me. 

It’s that they never thought to ask. 

They just decide. 

That I wouldn’t be good

Couldn’t be that good or whatever it is

But the reality is that this happens everywhere in life at all times. 

It often happens with the megabrokers. 

Well, of course, they’ll be the best because it’s

Xyz or abc or whichever three letter broker it is. They’re the biggest or they have the most data or insert whatever assumption. 

But that really isn’t the case. 

What makes someone or some team exceptional is that 

Drive
Skill
Extra effort 
Hidden talent 

Being a guy with a sport or a mega broker with a deal doesn’t make you necessarily the best. 

At LION Specialty we pride ourselves on being that team that has that extra effort, and hidden talent. 

Curious what that looks like?

Come talk to us. 

What talent of yours often gets overlooked?

P.S.  for a little video proof… the ongoing dual between my fiancé and me… anytime there’s a game to be played… and yes, the record is 62 / 57 … me. We’ve kept score the whole time we’ve been together. For the record, he’s also pretty incredible at games.

Most executives discover their D&O coverage gap the day they get sued—not the day they sign the policy.


Here's the brutal part:

CFOs and general counsels spend weeks negotiating premium rates and policy limits. But the language that actually determines whether you're covered? Most never read it.

I've reviewed hundreds of D&O policies. And the same technical gaps show up over and over.

These aren't edge cases. They're the exact provisions insurers use to deny claims when executives need coverage most.

Here are 3 policy traps that sink real claims:

1/ Fraud exclusion language with a "dishonesty”trigger

Vague fraud exclusions let the insurer deny coverage based on allegations alone—no final judgment required. Executives are left funding their own defense. 

✅ Protective: "Fraud as determined by final non-appealable adjudication"
❌ Risky: "Fraud resulting from dishonest acts" (no adjudication requirement)

2/ Hammer clauses forcing lowball settlements

This provision penalizes you for rejecting settlement offers the insurer wants to take.

Refuse a settlement? The policy limits your recovery to what you would've paid if you'd accepted.

✅ Protective: No hammer clause, or "modified hammer" (insurer shares excess costs)
❌ Risky: "Insurer's liability limited to settlement amount offered"

3/ Representations language that outright excludes coverage and relies on all being material

If your policy application becomes part of the contract, any misstatement—even unintentional—can be used to deny 

This includes statements made by people you don't even know about facts you can't verify.

✅ Protective: "Severability of applications" + "only material items to acceptance can be used to deny"
❌ Risky: "Application is part of this policy and all statements are warranties"

I've seen GCs negotiate policies for months and yet miss some key details like these

Which of these gaps exists in your current D&O policy?

Talk birdie to me


The line the from sweatshirt I’m wearing here. And a term that is on the minds of many pros this week at TPC Scottsdale golf tournament.  

As I watched these pros and amateurs tee off yesterday, I’m constantly reminded of the dedication and skill that it takes to get to the top of your game. 

While it starts with above average skill, it always comes back to finding beauty and comfort in the mundane. 

That extra effort to do the next rep, 
one more hour of practice,
one more review,
one more check

I see it in all aspects of life:

My cousin who did make a birdie yesterday in the tournament - has played golf for 40 years but just changed his golf swing recently to find that “next level”

Our team who reviews each document over and over again to make sure there are no mistakes. 

I’ll continue to believe that drive will allow anyone to outperform those around them. 

While it can’t be trained, it can be encouraged by team members who share that same desire to continue to level up. 

What are you doing to level up?

Right now we are perfecting our internal data to make sure we are accurately capturing it for the future!

Freedom of speech and press as given by this platform itself


How lucky are we to be able to have individual liberties that some only dream to have

•	Believe in who or what you wish
•	To gather with whom we wish 
•	The right to a fair trial if accused 

To get to use social media to promote

Our companies
Our ideas
Ourselves 

It’s seemingly sometimes lost on people but what a gift it really is. 

So today, I’m grateful for those who came well before this time, while many and much had to happen to get us to where we are, it was those founding fathers and first presidents who started us on this incredible path that we are on today. 

Happy Presidents’ Day

“The stiff and unbending is the disciple of death. The gentle and yielding is the disciple of life". 


A quote from the Tao Te Ching. 

In building a business, being around friends at different phases of life, from different cultures, marrying someone of a different ethnicity, and trying at all times to immerse myself in culturally rich cities, I’ve found this to be true to almost an unnerving point. 

If you’re not willing to bend
Change your habits
Continually grow
Apologize for your wrongdoings
Shift your path based on another 

You’ll find yourself in the same place for most if not all of your life. 

I was reminded of this quote in finishing the book Atomic Habits by James Clear . 

While on the face it’s about habits, I took away more the ability to

- take what is automatic and make it a deliberate practice 
- Learn to master the process of narrowing your focus to truly the most important element of success
- Constantly review and reflect

And more importantly than anything learning to fall in love with the mundane. 

Why does any of this matter?

Because it’s what makes people great. 

To be applied anywhere of deep success:

Successful entrepreneur
White glove service
Professional athlete 
Fighter pilot
The charismatic wealthy friend who seems to have it all 

Which all comes with the desire to master as task but always being willing to grow. 

Most do not have this level of discipline especially these days with AI, social media, and attention spans being less than 10 seconds. 

So for those who fall in this camp.  I applaud you, and hope to meet you someday!

Happy Saturday. 

Ps. A brand that definitely has this dedication to constant improvement and refinement! Their location in France was quite the experience!
Ruinart

Most coaches rely on referrals because most marketing is transactional, misaligned, or simply not built for the kind of work they do.

But that reliance creates uncertainty.
Great months followed by quiet ones.
Impact limited by chance.

I help coaches create consistent demand without forcing them out of integrity.

After failing my own coaching business trying to apply generic marketing/sales playbooks, I rebuilt my approach.

Now I build simple, repeatable systems for coaches that translate integrity, clarity, and their lived experience into steady, human conversations with the right people.

No pressure.
No performance.
No pretending.

Just consistent demand for your work.

I'll happily create your growth engine for free. Schedule some time with me here:
https://calendly.com/jeremy-hamiltongrowth/growth-engine-design

Jeremy Hamilton

No one is looking for a coach

People don't wake up thinking about a modality.
They wake up with a problem.

They want relief.
Support.
Someone who understands their situation.

Coaching is how you serve.
It is not why they come.

Demand is organized around painful problems.
Not titles. Not labels. Not identities.

When you lead with coaching, you blend in.
When you lead with their struggle, you stand out.

Do you lead with coaching, or with the struggles you help solve? Choose wisely.

Founder & Coach @ HamiltonGrowth | Helping coaches create consistent demand

If you’re a coach, don’t build a coaching business

That’s not what people are buying.

Coaching is how you help.
It’s not why someone reaches out.

People don’t want a coach.
They want support inside a very specific struggle.

When you build a “coaching business,”
you compete with everyone who uses the same label.

But when you leverage coaching as part of your offer,
It turns into an advantage.

What business are you actually building?

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Tinuke Solanke

Your method doesn’t create connection.

Connection happens when someone feels recognized.

Most people don’t care about your method.
They care whether you see what they are dealing with.

When you lead with frameworks,
You ask them to translate.

When you lead with their lived reality,
They go: ‘That’s me!’

Connection happens without explanation.

Where are you asking people to do the work?

Your ideal client isn't out there. Look in the mirror.

You're only ever able to help people through the stuff you've faced yourself.

Offering anything else is faking it.
People smell that a mile away.
It's also not why you became a coach in the first place.

You already know who you're for.

What pivotal moment did you go through that you now help others with?

If you offer 'Discovery calls,' you're doing it wrong

It basically means:
"I have no idea what you're struggling with"

What's worse is this:
You ask your potential client to carry all the risk
Both of you literally have no idea if this will be worthwhile

But lead with a painful problem, then offer to fix it
Whoever books a call knows exactly what to expect

One hopes you're relevant. 
The other knows you're essential.

What do you offer?

I wish I realized this earlier about marketing

Marketing is about 1 thing and 1 thing only.
To build trust.

But to do this effectively, it's not about showing off my credentials or bragging about my results.

It's about connection.
Genuinely caring about the people I meet.

Being on their team.
Loving their effort.
Placing myself in their shoes and genuinely giving a damn.

Help good people make more impact.

I replaced marketing with being in connection.
It's more fun and I get to connect more genuinely with people. 

What does marketing mean to you?

Helping everyone is the fastest way to be invisible

Most coaches are right about one thing:
Their work can help a lot of people.

But being in demand isn’t about being for everyone
It’s about being recognizable

When your truth is wide
Your language must be narrow

Not to exclude
But to allow someone to say:
“This is me!”

The moment people recognize themselves in what you say
Is the moment they stop scrolling and reach out

What's the 1 thing you help your clients with?

Who you are isn’t relevant to grow your business

Growth was never about you in the first place.

People are not looking for you.
Your story.
Your credentials.

They are trying to get rid of a problem that hurts.

But when you lead with who you are
You make it about you

When you lead with what hurts,
You make it about them

Only one of these causes business growth.

Where are you still making it about you?

Coaching changed my life. It’s also a terrible business idea.

What is healing for me doesn’t automatically translate to what people want to invest in.

This assumption cost me my first business.
But I also see many smart coaches fall into the same trap:

You fall in love with the method.
You talk about the tool and its transformational power.

You assume others are looking for the same doorway you walked through.

They’re not.
Because they’re looking for relief inside their own specific mess.

Not our awakening story.
Not our modality.

Transformation is real.
Coaching is powerful.

Market relevance is a different game.

Where does your offer land?

Marketing doesn’t work for coaches & therapists. Here’s why.

Urgency.
Scarcity.
Fricking countdown timers.

All of this puts people into a dysregulated state.

‘Act now!’
‘Limited time off!’
‘5 Spots left!’

Ugh.

It’s fake.
It’s manipulative.
It’s bullshit.

As a coach/therapist, isn’t the whole point to empower clients OUT of survival?

I failed my first coaching business. Or so I thought.

I closed it down because I was nearly bankrupt.
I was bitter.
And I felt defeated.

A powerful calling.
Like something greater was calling me forward.
And still, nothing but ashes.

I lost a part of myself on that journey.
I knew I’d come close, but something seemed out of reach.

It marked a year of integration + money survival-mode.
Not a great combo.

“Failure is a good teacher,” they say.
I mostly found myself trying to figure out what the hell happened.

“How do I grow a coaching business?”

I’d learned the hard way that most marketing and sales don’t work.
Not for coaching.

It demands trust, connection, and value.
Not bro-marketing.

When I reminisce about my glorious failure, I feel grateful.
It sparked a quest to figure out how to do this.

It took me a while, but I did.
Through my failure, I ended up building a thriving coaching business.

Without sales.
Without marketing.

Eventually, I was able to see that what I had learned wasn’t just defeat.
I had simply found a way that didn't work.

Beep. Shift. Go.

What have you learned from today's 'mistakes'?

A personal message does not mean manual

Most messages feel automated because they are generic.
Not because they are sent by a system.

When you lead with a specific problem,
Even automation feels human.

But when the message is vague,
Even voice notes feel cold.

Systems amplify both.
They don’t fix it.

Is your message clear? Automate it!

You wear enough hats.

When you're a coach, don't be the hero

Every time I tried to prove I was capable and worthy
Most potential clients simply ghosted me

Storybrand taught me that there's only room for one hero in a story
And as a coach, I'm much better suited to be Gandalf. Not Frodo.

When you present yourself as "up here" and ‘look at me’, you're not building a bridge. 
You're building a wall

Our clients don't need another hero
They need a guide who's been where they are
Who knows the land and can point to Mordor

The moment I stopped proving I was qualified 
Started meeting people where they hurt 
I experience more connection and get more clients

Where are you still playing Frodo?

I didn’t wait until I felt ready. That’s why it worked.

Limited cash.
No clarity on my offer.
No idea who I was for.
Message wasn’t landing.

I was stressed. 
Felt frustrated.
Scared.

I knew I had value to offer.
I just hadn’t figured out how to get clients.

Still, I kept walking forward.
In the dark.

I knew I had to figure this out myself.

To stop listening to the opinions and advice of others.
To rely on myself and my own ability to figure it out.

"I have everything I need."
"The only thing left is to show up."

Every.
Single.
Day.

Independent. 
Sovereign.

Until I get what I want.

I remember:
How scared I was.
How often I wavered.
How much pressure I put on myself..

When I look back at this phase of my business, I realize that sometimes,
Sometimes, I don’t need all the answers.

Sometime all I really need is to take one next step.

What’s your step into the unknown today?

I was shaking. This changed everything

I didn’t go viral.
I didn’t close a deal.

For months, I was working on the same outreach message over and over.

Offer changed.
Audience changed.
Problem sharpened.
Language simplified.

I sent messages daily.

Most were ignored.
Some polite replies.
No real traction.

Until one morning,
I looked at my calendar,

Blinked twice, but confirmed:
5 People had booked a call with me.

Overnight.

It took me a minute to take it in.
Then it hit me:

I finally found a way to open up conversations with people.
I finally locked in a version of my message that landed!

I was so proud.

Took me 86 working days before I 'cracked the code.'
Damn well worth it.

What message are you testing right now to get new clients?

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