#1 Female Creator Worldwide 🌎 | CEO & Founder of BetterMe, Health Coach, Harvard Guest Speaker, Forbes 30 Under 30. On a mission to create an inclusive, healthier world

With an Executive Program from Stanford University Graduate School of Business, my journey has led me to become the CEO & Founder of BetterMe. At BetterMe, we've achieved global recognition by focusing on inclusive, affordable, and fun wellness solutions. My competencies in analytical skills, strategy, and market research have been pivotal in driving our mission.

The BetterMe team is dedicated to promoting a healthy lifestyle that is accessible to all, from individual users to entire organizations. Driven by my belief in the transformative power of inclusive wellness solutions, we’ve developed innovative programs like anywhere pilates, yoga, and stress relief workouts. 

BetterMe now extends these solutions to workplaces, empowering companies to foster healthier, more productive teams. We are committed to transforming lives and building a culture that values diverse perspectives and empowers our community to lead healthier, more balanced lives!

Victoria Repa

Never trade your nervous system for a salary.

Most people think job changes are mainly about money.

But over time, something else becomes obvious.
People move to places where work doesn’t feel like pressure.

Because a higher paycheck rarely makes up for:

↳ Sunday night anxiety
↳ fear of telling the truth
↳ a 11:40 pm “urgent” message
↳ the feeling of not being heard
↳ constant tension of “don’t mess up”

We often call it “being tired.”
But it’s actually a lack of safety.

That’s why peace of mind has become the new currency in the job market.

It looks simple, 
but it’s built every day:

• support instead of blame
• dialogue instead of silent tension
• respect for time instead of overtime
• meaning instead of endless “shoulds”
• clear expectations instead of guessing

People don’t leave because of hard tasks.

They leave the atmosphere where every task turns into stress.

So the question for every leader is simple:
Does your team feel calmer or more anxious because of you?

Because sometimes the strongest benefit isn’t a bonus.

It’s the ability to work without constant inner tension.

What creates “peace of mind” at work for you?
___

♻️ Share this if you believe strong results start with a calm, safe team environment.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

I used to think people changed jobs for money

Now I know they’re looking for peace of mind.

Victoria Repa
BetterMe

This leadership skill holds teams together in hard moments.

When everything goes according to plan.

Almost any leader can look confident.
The real test starts when things go bad.

And kindness is often the one thing that saves the team in those moments.

It is simple:

A mistake. 
A missed deadline. 
Numbers dropping.

And suddenly you see the real person behind the title.
Because pressure reveals leadership fast.

Some leaders react with fear.

And fear always looks the same:

↳ control instead of trust
↳ harsh words instead of clarity
↳ blame instead of responsibility
↳ public humiliation instead of private feedback

In teams like this, people learn one rule quickly:

Hide the bad news.

• So problems get buried.
• Meetings go quiet.
• Risks are raised too late.
• People stop taking initiative.

Not because the team is weak.
Because the culture is unsafe.

But there is another type of leader.
The one who stays kind when it is hard.

Keeps a human tone.
Holds standards without breaking people.

They ask:

→ What happened? 
→ What do we fix first? 
→ What support do you need from me? 
→ How do we make sure this does not happen again?

This is not softness.
This is emotional strength.

And it is rare.

So, if a leader stays kind when things go bad, 
you’ve found the right leader.

What is the strongest sign for you that a leader can be trusted under pressure?
__

♻️ Share this if you agree.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

If a leader stays  kind when things  go bad, you've found the right leader.

Victoria Repa
BetterMe

True leadership isn’t about being #1.

It’s about treating everyone like they’re #1:

↳ your team,
↳ your clients and audience,
↳ your partners and peers.

That’s why servant leadership is the new standard.

But most leaders confuse it with being convenient.
And that almost always ends with a loss of effectiveness.

Because a team doesn’t need someone who agrees with everything.

A team needs someone who protects what truly matters: 
growth and the ability to speak openly.

Because true service is about creating the conditions
where people can do their best work.

Servant leadership isn’t about:

• Avoiding conflict
• Pleasing everyone
• Saying “yes” to everything

Servant leadership is about:

• Lifting others up
• Supporting growth
• Empowering others
• Clearing roadblocks
• Leading from behind
• Amplifying quiet voices
• Coaching, not controlling
• Creating safety to speak up

Strong leaders don’t try to please everyone.
They transform:

→ Control → into coaching.
→ Politics → into clear agreements.
→ “I’ll decide” → into “I’ll help you decide.”
→ Fear of mistakes → into the courage to speak up.

Because when there’s space to speak openly,
people don’t hold back.

They challenge.
They contribute.
They take ownership.

And that’s how effectiveness happens.

Which habit of a convenient leader do you see most often in teams?
__

♻️ Share this if you agree.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

Here’s why most KPIs don’t work:

Many companies build their systems around numbers.
But not around people.

Because if people aren’t motivated and don’t feel safe, 
no metric will save the outcome.

The real KPIs are the small signals that keep a team moving:

→ Keep people invested in results 
when everyone knows what “winning” looks like.

→ Keep people inspired by purpose, 
so work feels meaningful, not automatic.

→ Keep people included in decisions, 
because ownership grows where voices matter.

→ Keep people in sync with priorities, 
so energy goes into the few things that actually move the business.

→ Keep people informed about change, 
because uncertainty kills focus faster than workload.

→ Keep people innovating without fear,
because fear stops initiative, and without initiative there’s no progress.

You can track revenue, retention, performance.

But if you don’t track the human system behind them, 
you’ll keep coming back to the same problems again and again.

So start measuring what keeps your team energized and engaged, 
and the numbers will follow.

Which of these KPIs has the biggest impact on your motivation to perform at your best?

_

♻️ Share this with someone who needs a different view on KPIs.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

KPI’s
KEY PERFORMANCE INDICATORS
KEEP PEOPLE INVESTED IN RESULTS
KEEP PEOPLE INSPIRED BY PURPOSE
KEEP PEOPLE INCLUDED IN DECISIONS
KEEP PEOPLE IN SYNC WITH PRIORITIES
KEEP PEOPLE INFORMED ABOUT CHANGE
KEEP PEOPLE INNOVATING WITHOUT FEAR

For more valuable content, follow me:
Victoria Repa 
BetterMe СEO & Founder

The fastest way to lose a strong team...

Not pressure.
Not competition.
Not even tough deadlines.

It’s the absence of kindness.

The most underrated superpower in leadership.

People do their best work where they feel safe, respected, and seen.

Because when kindness disappears, 
people don’t become stronger.

They become guarded:

→ they stop taking risks
→ they stop fully showing up
→ they stop sharing ideas early

Here’s what KINDNESS looks like in action:

K — Kick the ego 
Lead with humility. No one trusts a know-it-all.

I — Inclusion 
Invite diverse voices into every conversation.

N — Nurture 
Check in regularly, not just during performance reviews.

D — Decency 
Keep your word, even when it’s inconvenient.

N — Notice 
Celebrate small wins as often as big milestones.

E — Empathy 
Ask “How are you?” and listen without rushing.

S — Support 
Be someone people can talk to, not tiptoe around.

S — Soft strength 
Set boundaries with clarity and respect.

If you want a team that moves fast, speaks honestly,
and grows, start here.

Kindness isn’t a nice bonus.

It’s how you hold high standards without devaluing people.

What kind act from a leader changed how you saw them?
_

♻️ Share this if you believe kindness builds strong teams.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

These 7 types of leaders are remembered with gratitude.

(they change your life forever)

The leaders we remember don’t just deliver results.
They unlock your potential.

Years later, you may forget the project.

But you won’t forget who made you believe in yourself.

Made you feel like you’ll figure it out.
Made you feel seen.

Here are 7 types of leaders people remember for life:

1/ The one who challenged you to grow, even when it was uncomfortable.

2/ The one who showed up consistently, even on hard days.

3/ The one who celebrated your wins like their own.

4/ The one who believed in you before you believed in yourself.

5/ The one who never needed to be the smartest person in the room.

6/ The one who led with kindness, not fear.

7/ The one who saw potential where others saw limitations.

Leadership isn’t a title.
It’s a trace.

And one day you’ll realize:

Your leadership isn’t what you say.
It’s who people become after working with you.

It’s how they speak after working with you.

The standards they keep.
The confidence they carry into the next room.

Which type of leader shaped you the most and why?
_

♻️ Share this to build an environment where people unlock their potential.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

This isn’t taught in business schools, but it should be 👇

Kindness is a KPI most leaders ignore.

Because it reduces tension, strengthens trust,
and makes teams more productive.

In most companies, tension doesn’t come from hard tasks.

It comes from small daily interactions:

↳ ego in conversations
↳ wins that go unnoticed
↳ silence instead of inclusion
↳ promises that don’t get kept
↳ feedback that feels like a fight

That’s why, to build an environment where people actually want to work,
I rely on a simple kindness framework.

Here’s what KINDNESS looks like in action:

K — Kick the ego 
Humility builds trust.

I — Inclusion 
Invite varied viewpoints.

N — Nurture 
Make check-ins routine

D — Decency 
Keep your promises.

N — Notice 
Celebrate small wins too.

E — Empathy 
Check in and truly listen.

S — Support 
Be open to conversation.

S — Soft strength 
Set respectful boundaries.

And here’s the part that changes culture the fastest:

Kindness isn’t limited to your team.
It should work 360°:

→ Kindness to yourself
Notice and log small wins. Make time to rest and recharge.

→ Kindness to your teammates
Ask: “How can I help?” Step in when they’re swamped.

→ Kindness to your manager
Always say thank you for help. Show support when it’s tough.

→ Kindness to your subordinates
Praise publicly, coach privately. Listen without interrupting.

Kindness isn’t a “nice tone.” 
It’s a productivity driver.

People don’t need perfect leaders.

They need leaders who create a safe, clear, and human environment.

If you could improve one daily interaction at work, what would it be?
__

♻️ Share this framework if you believe kindness is a real KPI.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

The leadership formula that actually works:

IQ + EQ + SQ = A Great Leader

The strongest leaders I know don’t develop just one type of intelligence.
They grow in three dimensions at once:

→ how they think → how they feel → how they build connection with people.

Here are 3 types of intelligence every strong leader needs:

1/ IQ

• Limit multitasking
• Set learning goals weekly
• Plan your day with priorities
• Analyze data before deciding
• Write to clarify your thoughts
• Reflect on mistakes and lessons
• Read daily (especially non-fiction)
• Take online courses or certifications
• Review and improve processes monthly

IQ helps leaders think clearly.
It helps them see situations clearly, make better decisions, and keep growing.

2/ EQ

• Pause before reacting
• Give regular appreciation
• Ask open-ended questions
• Notice body language cues
• Learn to apologize sincerely
• Celebrate small wins together
• Set clear emotional boundaries
• Journal your emotional triggers
• Check in with your emotions daily

EQ helps leaders lead themselves first before leading others.
Because self-awareness creates emotional stability,
and emotional stability builds trust.

3/ SQ

• Handle conflict calmly
• Remember names and stories
• Build trust by being consistent
• Be present in every conversation
• Adjust your communication style
• Collaborate instead of competing
• Attend networking events regularly
• Genuinely care about how others are doing
• Focus on real relationships, not just contacts

SQ is what turns leadership into real human connection.
It helps people feel seen, respected, and safe around you.

And that is often the reason why people want to follow your lead.
The best leaders do not rely on just one strength.

↳ They keep learning.
↳ They build real relationships.
↳ They learn to manage their inner state.

That is what makes leadership effective.

And that is what makes it sustainable.

Which intelligence do you want to strengthen most right now: IQ, EQ, or SQ?

_

♻️ Share this if you believe strong leadership starts from within.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me: Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

90% of managers ignore the power of introverts.

Translation:
They miss the best ideas and the most consistent execution.

Introverts do not need to get louder to deliver results.
They need the right environment.

Because most workplace cultures reward visibility, 
not value.

↳ The loudest voice gets remembered. 
↳ The fastest reply gets counted as contribution. 
↳ The person who talks the most looks “engaged.”

And quiet people learn one thing fast. 
To perform, they first have to fight the culture.

That is wasted talent.

A simple formula for consistent introvert performance:

1/ Basic needs: 
quiet focus time and space to recharge solo 

2/ Safety: 
clear expectations, steady routines, predictable check ins 

3/ Belonging: 
small group connection and easy ways to contribute 

4/ Esteem: 
recognition in a comfortable format and time to prepare ideas 

5/ Self-actualization: 
autonomy, meaningful work, and expertise-driven growth.

When those conditions exist, 
introverts become a team superpower:

→ they raise quality through care
→ they catch small mistakes early
→ they reliably finish what they start
→ they reduce tension without drama
→ they listen deeply and hold context
→ they show up with prepared solutions

The question is not “How do we make them talk more?”

The question is “How do we make it easier for them to contribute?”

A few leadership moves that change everything:

• Reward outcomes, not volume.
• Send the agenda before the meeting.
• Ask for input after the call, not only during it.
• Create smaller discussion spaces, not only big rooms.
• Share updates in a message and document decisions in writing.

Because motivation for introverts is not loud words.
It is autonomy, clarity, and space for deep work.

Quiet people do not need to become louder.

They need the right conditions to do their best work.

What is one change your team could make to help introverts thrive?
_

♻️ Share this with anyone who’s building a calmer, smarter culture.

☝️ For more valuable content, follow me Victoria Repa | BetterMe CEO & Founder

The Systems Guy • Follow me for systems on health, wealth, and free time ⚡ Cornell MBA • 2M+ audience

Hi, I'm Ben Meer.

Tired of non-actionable life advice, I started writing online in February 2022.

Here are the results:

→ Built social audience from 0 to 2M+ (across IG, LinkedIn, and X) 
→ Grew 0 to 690K+ followers on LinkedIn in 21 months
→ Scaled newsletter—System Sunday—from 0 to 270K+ subscribers

There are 2 primary ways I can help you:

1) System Sunday Newsletter

Most people don't know how to build life systems to accelerate personal growth. So I created a weekly newsletter that teaches these systems (it's free). Subscribe to unlock new levels of wealth, health, and freedom.

→ Try it: benmeer.com/ss

2) Archimedes [Coaching]

Access the most exclusive members' club for LinkedIn thought leaders. Get the proven systems, resources, and community to 10x your personal brand. 

→ Check it out: joinarchimedes.com

——

Sponsorships: partnerships@benmeer.com

Ben Meer

How to live life like it’s your second time around.

5 rules to experience more joy and less regret:

1. Remember the Spotlight Effect.

We think people are paying far more attention to us than they are. 

Harsh truth: 

Your freedom begins the day you realize nobody is thinking about you.

—

2. Consider the things you won’t care about in 5 years. 

• Other people’s opinions
• Petty disagreements
• Sensationalized news 

Allow yourself to stop caring now.

—

3. Shift your mindset from ‘I don’t know how’ to ‘I don’t know how yet.’

In the words of Adam Grant:

• Impostor syndrome: ‘I don't know what I'm doing. It's only a matter of time until everyone finds out.’

• Growth mindset: ‘I don't know what I'm doing yet. It's only a matter of time until I figure it out.’

The highest form of self-confidence is believing in your ability to learn.

—

4. Make 'No' your default. 

Whether it's a new work project or social gatherings, saying 'Yes' to non-priorities ruins your priorities. 

As Derek Sivers says, if it's not a 'Hell yeah,' it's a no.

Then pour that time into what actually excites you.


—

5. Normalize being weird.

“Weirdness is what sets us apart, gets us hired. Be your unapologetically weird self. In fact, being weird may even find you the ultimate happiness.” —Chris Sacca

—

We only get one do-over in this beautiful life. 

Make sure to live it intentionally. 🙌

♻️ Repost to help others live life to the fullest.
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more.

This quote hit home for me.

12 small life edits that have outsized returns:

Morning Routines

1. Make your bed first thing. You build momentum and set the tone for the day. 

2. Step outside. A healthy tide of cortisol is released when you step outside at daybreak, allowing you to become more alert. You'll reset your circadian rhythm.

3. Send a good morning text. Gm texts >>>. Make someone's day.

—

Evening Routines

4. Write down your 3:3:3 plan for tomorrow: 3 hours on your most important project, 3 shorter tasks, 3 maintenance activities (h/t Oliver Burkeman).

5. End your workday with a shutdown ritual (h/t Cal Newport). Close your laptop, plug in the charger, and spend 2 minutes tidying your desk. Then say "shutdown". Separating your work and life is key.

6. Journal 1 beautiful life moment. Delicious tacos, presentation you crushed, a moment of inner peace. Write it down. Gratitude programs a mindset of abundance.

—

Meals

7. Prioritize unprocessed, whole foods: eggs, blueberries, dark leafy greens, and walnuts. You'll feel on (finally).

8. Hydrate before you caffeinate. Drink a full glass of water right away. 60% of your body is water. Replenish it.

9. Follow Japan's 80% Rule: Only eat until you are 80% full. Overeating makes the body divert blood & energy to digestion (causing drowsiness). Nobody has time for a food coma.

—

Home

10. Establish a home for every item. My advice: List your most misplaced items (keys, wallet, etc.) and standardize a home for these things today.

11. Choose practical materialism. Buy things that make you healthier, wealthier, or provide you free time. Products that make a material difference in the quality of your life.

12. Follow the 1 In, 1 Out Rule. If you purchase one item, then donate, toss, or sell another. Manage both inbound and outbound possessions to enjoy equilibrium.

—

One last thing:

It's not just your environment worth editing. Your inner dialogue shapes your life, too.

Audit your thoughts to make sure they align with who you want to become.

Your future self will thank you. 

♻️ Repost to share these tips with others. 
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more.

Social intelligence quietly determines who gets promoted.

Here are 20 sentences to master it:

These may be called soft skills, but there is nothing soft about their impact. 

♻️ Repost if you found this useful. 
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more like this.

The ultimate career superpower?

Learning faster than everyone else.

These 4 science-backed frameworks make it possible:

1. Pareto Principle (80/20 Rule)
↳ Identify the 20% of material driving 80% of learning.

2. Spaced Repetition 
↳ Revisit concepts at growing intervals. Memory compounds with time.

3. Feynman Technique
↳ Break an idea down into its simplest parts to deeply understand it.

4. Memory Palace
↳ Attach facts to memorable mental images. Visuals are hard to forget.

 —

Accelerate your learning with AI:

Here’s 3 prompts to use:

1. “Explain [topic] to me as if I’m 12.”

2. “Quiz me on [topic] with 5 questions, then give hints only if I’m stuck.” 

3. “Generate a spaced-repetition schedule for mastering [skill] in 30 days.”

Paste these into your favorite AI to take action. 

—

The best investment you’ll ever make is in your own mind.

Information is abundant. It’s the willingness to learn that’s rare.

💾 Save this to find it later.
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more frameworks like these.

A career skill I wish I learned earlier:

Analytical thinking.

20 sentences to make better decisions:

♻️ Repost if this was useful for you.
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more.

The most underrated life skill:
doing hard things even when you don’t feel like it.

3 mental models that make it easier:

1. For practicing discipline, follow the 2-Day Rule (H/T James Clear): 

"Never miss two days in a row." 

Your life will never be perfect, but it can be extraordinary. 

You might miss a day building a positive habit. That is OK. 

What's not OK? Letting that day turn into 3 weeks.

As Jim Kwik once said, "On the days you have only 40%, and you give 40%. You gave 100%."

—

2. For practicing courage, try going first.

Most people don't go first because it's scary.

The awkward silence. The risk of rejection. The fear of judgment.

But here's the thing: everyone feels it.

Whether you're in a meeting, on a call, or waiting in line, the person next to you is just as hesitant.

Going first isn't the absence of fear. It's choosing to act despite it.

A simple "Hi, I'm Ben", an unprompted idea, or raising your hand before you feel ready are all small acts that compound into a courageous identity over time.

—

3. For practicing gratitude, use the 3+3 Framework.

Write down 3 things you're grateful for and 3 recent small wins.

• 3 things you're grateful for: Focus on anything, big or small (a sunny day, a friend's support, a warm cup of coffee).

• 3 small wins: Write down things that have gone well recently (finishing a task, learning something new, a compliment you received).

It only takes 5 minutes and goes a long way.

—

The choice of what to practice is yours.
What you practice becomes who you are.

♻️ Repost if this message hit home for you.
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more content like this.

6 simple secrets to become quietly confident:

1. Allocate time every day for learning

Confidence starts with competence.

• Block out 30 minutes for reading
• Listen to an audiobook or podcast during your commute to work
• Treat everyone like they were sent to teach you something

—

2. Hone in your body language

Nonverbal communication is underrated. 

People will like or dislike your communication based on:

7% words, 38% face and tone, and 55% body language. 

Stand up straight. Keep your shoulders back. Make eye contact. Smile. Give a firm handshake.

—

3. Be more interested than interesting 

Make people feel important using the SHR Method:

Seen
• Give eye contact
• Offer a specific compliment

Heard
• Ask good questions
• Be interested, not interesting

Remembered
• Follow up
• Remember name(s)
• Recall something you discussed

—

4. Build your own momentum

• Write down your wins (compliments, successful presentation, solo trip, etc.)
• Consistently review these wins

You’ll build an undeniable stack of evidence showing how far you’ve come and how seriously capable you are.

—

5. Pause before speaking

When speaking, we allow ourselves only 30% of the time a listener would give us to fill a pause.

You have more time to reply than you think.

Wait for 2s first.

Pause in Speaking + Eye Contact = Confidence

(h/t Charlie Newport)

—

6. Embrace your flaws (Pratful Effect)

Think of your favorite character from the movies or TV.

They always had at least one major weakness (you wouldn’t like them as much otherwise).

Owning your flaws is humanizing; you’ll be magnetic.

You don’t need to hide parts of yourself to be accepted by others. 🙌

—

It doesn’t matter whether you’re introverted, extroverted, or ambiverted.

Confidence isn’t the loudest voice in the room.

It’s the calm belief that you'll figure things out.

♻️ Repost this if you learned something new.
🔖 And save it so you can master all 6 strategies.

"Culture eats strategy for breakfast." —Peter Drucker

20 simple phrases to build a healthy team culture:

If you want to install a growth mindset:

1. "What did we learn?"
2. "How might we…?"
3. "I need your help…"
4. "What are your thoughts on…?"
5. "Thanks for taking that risk."

If you want to build trust:

6. "I made a mistake."
7. "You've got my full support."
8. "I appreciate when you…"
9. Help me understand…"
10. "I trust your judgement."

If you want to cut out toxic language (avoid these):

11. "That's not my job."
12. "We've always done it this way."
13. "Who's to blame?"
14. "That'll never work."
15. "Just do what I say."

If you want to prevent eroding your culture (avoid these):

16. "They should have…"
17. "You're wrong because…"
18. "That's a stupid idea."
19. "Why didn't you…"
20. "I told you so."

The words you speak become the culture you work in.

The best ones don't just happen overnight.

They're built one word, phrase, and conversation at a time.

♻️ Repost to champion healthy workplace communication.
➕ Follow Ben Meer for more like this.

taplio

The Battle

Victoria Repa

Ben Meer

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance ScoreVictoria Repa's LinkedIn Performance

Performance ScoreBen Meer's LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

taplio

The Battle

Victoria Repa

Ben Meer

Followers

Posts

Engagements

Likes

Performance Score.css-goub6s{font-size:var(--chakra-fontSizes-md);font-weight:500;color:var(--chakra-colors-gray-600);display:block;margin-top:var(--chakra-space-1);}Victoria Repa's LinkedIn Performance

Performance ScoreBen Meer's LinkedIn Performance

Ready to grow your LinkedIn presence?

Performance ScoreVictoria Repa's LinkedIn Performance