Helping Entrepreneurs & Speakers Scale | Admin Support, Outreach, Systems & Social Media Strategy

Does this sound familiar?

- You’re drowning in emails, follow-ups, and to-do lists that never end.
- Your systems are scattered, and you feel like you’re reinventing the wheel every day.
- You’re missing out on opportunities because you’re stuck in the weeds instead of in your zone of    genius.

If so, I can help.

I’m the behind-the-scenes powerhouse for speakers and entrepreneurs, making sure every detail is handled so you can focus on inspiring your audience.

I handle: bookings, outreach, contracts, inboxes, social media, and all the little (and big) logistics that keep your business running smoothly.

Proactive. Detail-obsessed. Always three steps ahead.
You bring the message, I’ll handle the rest.

Most entrepreneurs don’t plateau because they lack skill.


They plateau because they are over capacity.

When you’re doing EVERYTHING, you can’t scale ANYTHING.

A Virtual Assistant isn’t a luxury.

A VA is what allows you to move from:

→ reacting to everything
→ to intentionally building something bigger

This is how businesses go from busy
↳ to booked
↳ structured 
↳ and sustainable

Scaling doesn’t require MORE effort.  It requires different support.

If you’re tired of running out of bandwidth, it’s time to delegate earlier than you feel ready.

DM me → I got you

Chastity Alexander

I've had 5 DM's this week asking me "What does a Virtual Assistant actually do?"

Well, here's a short list...

Managing your DMs, starting conversations, nurturing relationships
Logging metrics, impressions, and URLs so you can track growth
Keeping your brand consistent and your audience connected
Finding leads hidden in your reactions and comments
Building lead lists and moving them into your CRM
Searching content that inspires new ideas
Repurposing your best-performing posts
Writing captions and creating carousels
Tracking your top engagers on LinkedIn
Engaging with your online community
Managing your emails and calendar
Handling Pinterest and social media
Organizing your business backend
Helping you get your time back


Most importantly, we give you back your time to focus only on your genius and for most founders, that means reclaiming 20+ hours a week to grow revenue, not manage chaos.

What’s one task you know you should’ve delegated months ago?

Anxiety is your untapped potential.


I heard someone say this last week and it kinda shook me.

I’ve never thought of it that way.

Most of us treat anxiety like an enemy, something we have to shrink, hide, soothe, or push down.

But what if it’s not the enemy at all?

What if it’s the signal that something in you is growing?

In my own life, the moments where my anxiety felt the loudest
were the same moments I was stepping into something new.

↳ Starting my VA business.
↳ Pitching clients I used to think were out of my league.
↳ Learning new skills when I felt behind.

Trying to build a life that was bigger than the one I left.
➜ It wasn’t fear.
➜ It was stretch.
➜ It was potential that hadn’t found its form yet.

What if your anxiety is just a sign that you’re expanding?

____________________________________________
 ➜ I’m Chastity, a VA + systems strategist.
 ➜ I help speakers + entrepreneurs scale without the chaos.
 ➜ DM me if your backend needs some Southern structure.

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Your attachment style doesn’t just show up in relationships.


It shows up in your business systems, too.

Here’s what I see every week when I’m rebuilding people’s backends:

SECURE ATTACHMENT
I trust my systems.
 → Tasks assigned.
 → SOPs actually followed.
 → Automations monitored instead of micromanaged.
 These are the businesses that scale clean because the operator is stable.

ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT
If I stop, everything falls apart.
 → Checking notifications constantly
 → No batching
 → Rewriting the same tasks over and over
 First fix I make here? One weekly workflow that removes 70% of their reactivity.

AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT
I’ll just do it myself.
 → No delegation
 → No documented processes
 → Everything lives in their head
When I take these clients on, we start with a “brain dump → system map” so they can release control without losing quality.

DISORGANIZED ATTACHMENT
I want support, but I don’t trust it.
→ Switching tools every 30 days
→ Abandoning systems mid-setup
→ Inconsistent everything
 I anchor these clients with a 3-part stability stack: one tool, one workflow, one weekly review. No exceptions.

After helping rebuild several backend systems this year, the pattern is the same, how you attach is how you operate.

If your business feels chaotic, you don’t need to “push harder.”
You need structure that stays solid even when you’re overwhelmed.

Which attachment style are you running?

(photo is from my son's wedding reception)

What’s the goal?


That’s the question I ask every single client
before I lift a finger.

Because here’s the truth most entrepreneurs don’t want to say out loud

They’re not stuck because they’re unmotivated.

They’re stuck because they have 12 goals, 7 half-finished tools, and zero direction.

And that chaos?

 It shows up everywhere.
→ In their outreach
→ In their content
→ In their backend
→ In their calendar
→ In their bank account

But once we slow down long enough to answer the real question 
“What’s the goal for your business?”
 everything changes.

↳ You stop reacting.
↳ You start deciding.
↳ You stop chasing every shiny strategy.
↳ You start building the systems that get you where you actually want to go.

My job?

To help you get there faster.
Cleaner.
Simpler.

With way less stress and way more results.

Because when your goals are clear,
your systems can finally do their job.

So, let me ask you…

What’s your goal for the next 90 days?

If you want help building the backend, outreach, and automation that supports it, I’m your girl.

____________________________________________
 ➜ I’m Chastity, a VA + systems strategist.
 ➜ I help speakers + entrepreneurs scale without the chaos.
 ➜ DM me if your backend needs some Southern structure. 

(Photo is from a photoshoot we did and I'm wiping her, my daughters feet, so they weren't nasty in the picture!  Can't have nasty Wal-Mart feet!)

I say y’all in business meetings.


Not to be cute.
Not because I forget where I am.
But because it’s who I am.

I’m Southern through and through and I’ve learned that your background isn’t something to edit out of your business.

It’s what makes you memorable.

Authenticity builds trust.
Trust builds connection.
Connection builds clients.

That’s how I run my business.

Not by pretending I’m someone I’m not, but by being 100% real.

So if we work together expect a “y’all,” a laugh, probably a Roll Tide and systems that actually make sense.

📌 What’s one thing about you that you’ll never edit out of your business?

 ➜ I’m Chastity, a VA + systems strategist.
 ➜ I help speakers + entrepreneurs scale without the chaos.
 ➜ DM me if your backend needs some Southern structure.

Tell me you're in your 50's without telling me you're in your 50's!

This is me
→ balancing my hormones
→ lifting weights
→ getting my steps in
→ tracking my protein
→ and swallowing a pharmacy's worth of vitamins every day!

But honestly?  I've never felt stronger.

It's wild how much your body changes and how much you learn about yourself when you decide to work with it instead of against it.

Here's to everyone redefining what healthy look and feels like in your own chapter!

What's one thing that's made a difference for you?

Spidey D took over Dunkin’s Instagram this month


And I’ve gotta say, I’m here for it. 

Their purple donut, Spidey D was  
↳ roasting the Louvre theft, 
↳ asking followers for their mother’s maiden names “2 get 2 know u better,” ↳ and just being gloriously unhinged.

And guess what?

It’s working.
 
2.9 billion impressions working. 

But here’s what most people miss
That kind of creativity doesn’t happen in chaos.

It happens when there’s a strong system running quietly in the background, so the front-facing stuff can shine.

That’s where entrepreneurs get stuck.
You want to show up real, witty, authentic,

But you’re buried under admin tasks, 
→ follow-ups, 
→ content scheduling, 
→ and inbox avalanches.

That’s where someone like me steps in. 

I handle the structure, the polished, consistent foundation.
So you can handle the fun part, showing up with your real voice and bold ideas.

Spidey D might be unhinged, but you don’t have to be. 

Happy Halloween, LinkedIn. 💜

You can’t lead like Nick Saban if you’re still trying to do everything like it’s peewee football.


At some point in business you have to stop playing small ball.

Peewee football =
 doing every task yourself
 reacting to every crisis
 answering every DM, email, and fire
 believing hustle alone = growth

Saban level leadership =
 systems
 structure
 delegation
 strategy
 and surrounding yourself with people who make your job EASIER not heavier.

Scale requires releasing control not gripping tighter.

Most entrepreneurs wait way too long to make this shift.

They want to grow, but their backend still looks like you have 47 tabs open, and I’ll get to it later.

This is exactly where I step in as a Virtual Assistant.

I help you stop playing peewee style operational chaos so you can lead like an actual Division 1 program.

Because the truth is, in business just like football

Championships are built on the backend.

Not on the field.

The photo is of me and my daughter Maddie.  It is from Bryant Denny Stadium in 2015 when I took her to her first Alabama Crimson Tide Football Game and see Nick Saban as well.  This was in Tuscaloosa Alabama.  Watching a D1 football game is almost unexplainable how extraordinary the energy is there.

What does a mini pig have to do with your business systems?


More than you’d think.

My best friend just got this tiny pig, and y’all it is CUTE, but it is high maintenance.

↳ Bottle feed.
↳ Warm blankets.
↳ Close supervision.

And watching her care for this little thing made me realize something.

Your business is the same way.
You can’t grow it (or take care of it) if you’re running around putting out fires all day.

➜ You need systems.
➜ You need organization.
➜ You need help.

Because success isn’t about doing everything yourself.

It’s about creating enough space to care for what actually matters.

If your business feels like a wild farm right now instead of a peaceful porch swing moment…

I can help you fix that.

 ➜ I’m Chastity, a VA + systems strategist.
 ➜ I help speakers + entrepreneurs scale without the chaos.
 ➜ DM me if your backend needs some Southern structure.

Holiday Balance for Entrepreneurs


Entrepreneurs feel a special kind of tug during the holidays.

The pull between growing your business and being fully present with your family.

Here’s the truth most won’t say out loud:
You can do both.
Just not at the same time.

Boundaries create freedom.

When you work → work.
When you’re with your people → be WITH your people.

This season isn’t about grinding your way into 2026 at all costs.

It’s about being intentional.
↳ Clarity. 
↳ Capacity. 
↳ Presence.

This holiday season, give yourself permission to do both, without guilt.
Your business will still grow.
Your family still deserves you present.

Both matter.
You’re allowed both.


If you need help in making more time for yourself with admin tasks,

DM me → I got you

Is your boss really making you work through lunch?


Yesterday I was working from a little local coffee shop while eating my lunch and a gentleman walked by and asked if my boss really made me work while I ate.

I smiled and said, “I am the boss.”

This is what I always dreamed of when I left corporate, being able to run my business from anywhere, while creating real impact for other entrepreneurs.

In one hour yesterday I 
→ dropped my dog off at the groomer
→ set up a ManyChat automation for a client
→ drafted Black Friday emails for another
→ enjoyed a turkey wrap + cherry twist Dirty Alani
→ AND ran my business from a laptop at small town coffee shop

I don’t take days like that for granted.

This is freedom.

This is why I do what I do.

Because being a Business Admin / Backend Systems partner gives me flexibility and gives my clients support so THEY can have that kind of freedom too.

Grateful for this season. 
Grateful for this pace. 
Grateful for the clients who trust me with their businesses.

Entrepreneurship isn’t about doing more.

It’s about building in a way where moments like this become normal.

📍 VA Concierge Services turning chaos into clarity one system at a time.

Going viral isn’t the goal.


Having a backend that can actually handle it is.

The Starbucks Bearista situation wasn’t about the cute cup, it was a systems problem. 

Too much demand, not enough prep. And that’s where most businesses get caught , they chase the moment, but they don’t build for what happens after the moment hits.

That’s what I help my clients with as a Virtual Assistant:
→ getting the backend organized before the spotlight
→ making sure communication is clear and consistent
→ strengthening the customer journey so it doesn’t fall apart under pressure

Hype without structure = chaos.
Hype with support = momentum.

A viral moment isn't success, staying trustworthy and reliable after the moment is. 

Let's build your safety net before you need it.

DM me → I got you

Some feedback hits you differently.


Because it reminds you that the work you do, actually matters to real humans building real things.

I received this testimonial this week and I sat with it a bit before sharing it.

Not to brag.

Not to say “look at me.”

But because THIS is why I do what I do:
↳ To make business feel easier.
↳ To give people back mental space.
↳ To help them move faster without feeling heavier.

I spent so many years doing everything the hard way alone, overwhelmed, juggling too much and now I get to support other business owners and speakers so they don’t have to live in that same chaos.

I’m grateful every single time someone trusts me with their backend, their outreach, their systems, and their clients.

Support isn’t a luxury anymore.
It’s leverage.

And I’m honored I get to do this work.

(Thank you, Lara Your words mean more than you know)

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